What will you be hanging your hat on at the end of this week? Even if it's just a big deal for you?
I landed a Kerbal on the Mun and brought him safely back to Kerbin so you all have some catching up to do.
Dropped out of the reddit hive mind and joined up with you fine, thoughtful folk. That's a start.
This one is nice though. And more varied. And more open to discussion. And there's no way to vote-brigade people into oblivion either. And I (probably) won't get banned for posting controversial stuff.
I cheated on my husband. It was amazing. I feel happier and I will do it again. I am nicer to him, more alive than I have been in a while and I want to feel this way all the time. It's better for everyone, and I think I can keep my marriage together like this.
I am nicer to him,
-Actually, it is likely that you've never been more cruel.
As long as he doesn't find out then it will never matter.
In my gut I have some moral problem with this statement but I can't articulate it logically.
Speaking as someone who has been in your husband's shoes, unless he's into hotwifing or something similar, he's definitely not going to be as happy about this as you are. You know how good you're feeling? Multiply it by a hundred and make it a negative, that's how it feels from the other side. The are better ways of saving your marriage than betrayal.
I don't plan for him to find out, and I'm not going to tell him just because I feel guilty. There's no guilt yet actually. I'm not having emotional relationships, just casual sex. Every time that the husband or wife gets told that they were cheated on it's not for their benefit. It's just that the cheater wanted to feel better. I won't be doing that.
No, I was told by someone else as confirmation after I had figured it out. He will find out one way or another. And it will break him. He will probably be able to get himself back together again, but there's a strong possibility you won't be there to see that. I'm happy for you that you don't feel guilty, that must make it a lot easier for you to look him in the eye. But the fact it's just casual sex and not an emotional relationship will make absolutely no difference to him. You aren't just destroying your marriage, you're destroying his social circle too. He won't know who knew, who helped cover it up, and worse, who he can trust. He may never recover. I have one friend from before my ex-wife's infidelity. One. Sure I see most of the others every so often. I can smile and joke with them. But I no longer see them as friends and do not trust them. Just because you get a kick out of something and think you can cover it up; it doesn't mean it's okay to do it.
I posted this in reply to your other comment, but I thought I'd ask it again here: Have you talked to your husband about the mismatch in your libidos? If so, how did that conversation go? Mismatched libidos are not uncommon, nor are they easy to solve, but they can be worked through if both parties are willing to do so. It sounds like a relationship or sexual therapist might be very useful for you both, if you're able to get one. EDIT: You might find this Reddit comment worth reading
Yes. Especially because there was a lot of negative commenting regarding her choices. I live in a very glass house and so I try not to throw stones, but I do think that it's strange that in the other thread people were more encouraging. Before the fact no one was in rage that she was thinking about it but now that she is done it everyone is heartbroken for the husband.
Well, I used to lift more frequently, but stopped for a pretty long time. I'm starting off with some of the basic lifts (squats, bench press, overhead press, barbell rows, and dead lifts). They are arranged a certain way. I'm only really looking to get stronger. I'll probably modify the workout I have now after I reach my old numbers.
This is the first day in like, two weeks, that I feel well enough to get stuff done so I cleaned the house and am proud of how it looks especially after two weeks of filth. Also I got 50 xp on Duolingo yesterday (broke my old record) and for the first time understood a news broadcast in my target language which was awesome.
Got an atmospheric reading AND sent it to Kerbin with a probe. Also got like six different major mods for Fallout New Vegas to work.
I'd have preordered it if it wasn't for the fact my computer would probably die even thinking of it. Though New Vegas runs like a charm on 8.1. I get three times the framerate than on XP/7.
I'm spending it hosting my autistic brother for a holiday. So far we've been on three big days out. I'm absolutely exhausted, but haven't snapped at him once.
I already posted about this on here but I did an interview with a semi-famous web comic artist and it was illustrated by said artist and has now gone live on Youtube. It's took a lot of work but I'm happy with how it came out.
I don't find myself on the verge of tears with little provocation. #humblebrag
I'm bipolar with psychotic tendencies, schizoaffective maybe. I'm in the depressive state since April. The gay marriage ruling was pretty rough. I'm not gay but I about cried a number of times when that was all over the news. A few years ago when I was having the same problem the train scene from Spider-Man 2 had be beginning to choke up. It's pretty weird.
I finally built a farm in Ark. I'm really not OK with that being the big accomplishment of the week but my work projects are all stagnating. I'm hoping I can jump start them soon. EDIT: Thanks for the motivation. I went looking for work and found an old script I made to save company time. With some recent changes I've gotten it working and with a few more I think I can implement it on a scale that will save hundreds of hours. Good stuff.
On PC. At first I hated it, the public servers were weird and the private servers were weirder. It was just too hard to find people who played in a way that meshed with how I wanted to play. Now I'm playing with some guys from work and we all seem to be on the same page. I kind of get to go off and do my own thing and can join up with the tribe on big stuff, and I don't have to worry about griefers and trolls.