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I mean... their first record is mostly unattributed covers and poached material, so they were never really above such things.
I don't know enough about any of these people except for some of the more virulent members of the list to say much. While it seems like there's plenty of things to disagree with (namely the data collection opinion), calling him an extremist is definitely a stretch.
For clarification, in the thing I linked, the SPLC says
- Ayaan Hirsi Ali is a Somali-born activist who says she endured female genital mutilation
Not arguing for or against, but the SPLC does outline their reasons for his inclusion here.
- It's sort of immaterial at the moment, because she's not seeing anybody else.
Consider it Chekov's relationship. I and a wide range of my social circle also participate in open or poly relationships, and we've all chosen to do so for a reason. While some people migrate back and forth from being monogamous and poly, trust me when I say it will definitely come up again.
I really hope it works out for you, you sound hopeful, but definitely be able to have that conversation, and retain the ability to do what is best for yourself, while respecting their lifestyle choices as well.
I'm not trying to be preachy, apologies if it comes off like that, but I have seen relationships advance with this dynamic, and it's a tricky thing to manage properly for all involved,