If you were my ex, I'd go for coffee with you. Bring the kids. Otherwise, I'd be mostly having coffee with corpses. Coffee with Corpses - My next book.
ex 1 dead (he was 28 years older than me though, Parkinson's);
ex 2 dead (he was only 14 years older than me, made his own beer, heart attack)
ex 3 dead (played piano, MS)
ex 4 still alive, won't see me even though we share a kid, may as well be a corpse as far as I'm concerned, but he's been good to the junior unit since 2011 (after not seeing her for 17 years)
ex 5 still alive, loves Shakespeare, we actually do have coffee, even lunch occasionally.
ex 6 I will eventually have coffee with him, if only to get him to sign the sep. agr.