My immediate supervisor is being forced to transfer positions. HR is looking at the possibility of me being able to transfer as well, but I've been told the odds look pretty slim. Ever since I've heard the news, I've had nothing but nightmares about work. I'm not going to lie, my supervisor is the only reason I'm sticking around. If they're forced to transfer and I can't tag along, I think I'm going to seek employment elsewhere. Reading about cgod and his coffee shop reminds me how much I miss working for a small business. The pay and benefits aren't there, true, but the amount of care, respect, and satisfaction that comes with working for such a company far out weighs that. I think I'll have a long talk with the wife tonight. I don't think it'll go well. For fear of sounding selfish, I think I could use some good old Hubski prayer and good vibes right now.
Good luck! I hope you are able to transfer, but if not I wish you well in your decision. There are a lot of opportunities out there and you are in a position to take your time, which is great. When talking with your wife, come prepared with a piece of paper that has positives and negatives written down for "working for a smaller company," and ask her to contribute to the list. I find it's really helpful to let your spouse know that this is both of your decision and that you value their input. Good vibes heading your way!
Wow. Yea, per lil's suggestion, I read your advice and I think you're right -- asking for a contribution from your spouse is such a powerful way to show that you value them and receive their thoughts in a constructive way. tng, where do you come up with these?
Thanks man. This is really good advice. She's a very rational woman so this might help her see where I'm coming from here. There are emotional factors in play as well, so maybe I ought to list how I'm feeling about everything and why. Hopefully she won't be overwhelmed by too much information.
