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Grendel  ·  3233 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: America's struggle

As a non-American, I can only say that this habit of black Americans to blame all their problems on whites is quite annoying.





galen  ·  3233 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  

I'm very sorry to hear about your annoyance. I'll be sure to tell my black music teacher to just stop mentioning it when she's stopped by the police, who are--in spite of the lack of any justification--just making sure she owns her car, fucking monthly. I'll be sure to tell the 406 victims identified by an AP investigation as having lost 24,000 acres of land valued at tens of millions of dollars to just stop agitating for any kind of reparations now that I know a non-American is annoyed by it. I'll definitely tell the one in three American black men who are incarcerated at some point in their lifetime that it's all their fault, that it has nothing to do with institutional racism, with our history of--and the reemergence of--segregation, with the systematic disenfranchisement and theft of property weighing upon the black American population thanks to years of white antagonism. They can just shut up, because they're annoying the non-Americans.

E: The point is not that it's impossible for black Americans to succeed through "hard work and determination" and whatever other bullshit white people think goes into our success. That's an absurd strawman constructed primarily by racists. The point is that fighting to success is substantially more difficult and (N.B.) sometimes impossible for black Americans thanks to circumstances imposed by white Americans.

Grendel  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Look, I've seen black guys complain because their own relatives started looking down on them when they decided to live a respectable life (which the relatives considered a white thing and thus racist). There is a problem with the black community in the USA, whether you want to admit it or not, and with this attitude you'll never solve it.

KaliYugaz  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You just said you weren't American in your last comment. How do you know what it's really like for black people over here?

Grendel  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Because Internet.

ArtemusBlank  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You really think the Internet gives you a good picture on what it's like to be black in America? What sites have helped shape this viewpoint?

Grendel  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

The internet gives me a window on the world, and the ability to communicate with people from (almost) anywhere. Over the years, I've been exposed to a huge amount of information coming from the USA and I've even managed to make some friends from that part of the world.

But since none of that matters to you, here's a video of another black person agreeing with me.

And another.

And another.

And another.

And another.

And another.

Are you going to say that they don't have a good picture of what it's like to be black in America?

ArtemusBlank  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I can watch three hundred videos about England on Youtube and I might learn some things about English life but I don't think that will give me a full picture of what life is like in England. Until I am actually living in England, I won't really know what's it like to be England. I may have an idea of what's it like in England but that will not give me a full picture. For me to say that I fully know what life is like for the average British person after watching three hundred Youtube Videos on England just wouldn't make sense if I have never actually been there.

All the videos posted are rants and they might tell you some thoughts on what some African Americans think of this matter but it doesn't give you a complete picture. Until you and me are actually blacks living in America, we will never fully understand what going on in their lives and what struggles they face. Overall, the race issue is a really complex problem that is more than just blacks blaming their problems on whites.

Grendel  ·  3231 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Do you think you have a "full picture" of anything, really? I doubt it. If having an opinion on any given subject required having a complete picture of it, conversations would be over before they even start. I certainly don't understand everything about the condition of black Americans, but neither does anyone else in this thread.

galen  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Oh good, 6 whole black people agree with you! Clearly you speak for African-Americans everywhere.

RicePaddy  ·  3231 days ago  ·  link  ·  

This was a bit of a cop-out in my opinion. People were implying that because Grendel is not a black american that he doesn't understand the situation enough to come to a conclusion. He linked videos to black americans who do understand the situation and who share his viewpoint. At the very least, he has proven that people with his viewpoint aren't just uneducated white people.

You're one black American. I can easily dismiss you in the same way you dismissed him by saying "Oh good! one whole black person has this view! Clearly you speak for African-Americans everywhere.

galen  ·  3231 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm not one black person, I'm white. People were dismissing Grendel because he seemed uninformed; he linked to six pieces of anecdotal evidence, whereas my (other) response linked to two pieces of statistical evidence and referenced years of well-established historical fact. That's what I was mocking.

RicePaddy  ·  3231 days ago  ·  link  ·  

An honest mistake. I made the assumption based on the following line. Apologies nonetheless.

| ... and whatever other bullshit white people think goes into our success.

Thanks for replying to the post anyway and clarifying things up. You seem passionate about what's being discussed here, so I might as well ask: What are the "well-established historical facts" to which you are alluding? You made an oblique reference to "years of white antagonism" in your original response to Grendel; could you give me an example of how average white Americans have antagonized black people in recent years? From my (admittedly limited) understanding of the situation there, the problem seems to be quite heavily a class issue.

In any case, I am not an American, and I don't attempt to keep on top of the narrative. I was merely commenting on the arguments outlined in this thread as I saw them.

However, there is the worrying case of some people claiming that minorities can do no wrong, and that they "can't be racist against white people". As long as people are "punching-up" so to speak, being racist is fine. There was quite some discussion about everybody's favourite Goldsmiths Diversity Officer, just as an example. Initially thought that it was just hardliners over there in the US, but the trend seems to have spread across the pond to some hardliners here. What's your opinion on the issue? Is it still racist if you're punching up?

galen  ·  3230 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yeah, I meant "whatever other bullshit white people think goes into [white people's] success." My bad on the lack of clarity.

Also important to note, I'm not talking necessarily about white antagonism in recent years. I'm talking about white antagonism--from any time period--that has affected minorities in recent years. Here's some of the well-established historical fact about these effects:

    Two hundred fifty years of slavery. Ninety years of Jim Crow. Sixty years of separate but equal. Thirty-five years of racist housing policy. Until we reckon with our compounding moral debts, America will never be whole.

http://www.theatlantic.com/features/archive/2014/05/the-case-for-reparations/361631/

    Lynching, the practice of murdering people by extrajudicial mob action, occurred in the United States chiefly from the late 18th century through the 1960s. Lynchings took place most frequently against African-American men in the southern U.S. after the American Civil War and the emancipation of all slaves, and particularly from 1890 to the 1920s, with a peak in 1892. [...] It occurred most frequently in areas with large concentrations of blacks, dominated politically by Democrats, and with competition among local churches, as part of the enforcement of white supremacy by whites in the late 19th century following Reconstruction. The granting of U.S. Constitutional rights to freedmen after the American Civil War during the Reconstruction era (1865–1877) aroused anxieties among white Southerners, who were unwilling to concede such social status to African Americans. They blamed the freedmen for their own wartime hardship, economic loss, and loss of social and political privilege. During Reconstruction, freedmen and whites active in the pursuit of civil rights, were sometimes lynched in the South. In addition, blacks were intimidated and attacked to prevent their voting, with violence increasing around elections from 1868 into the late 1870s. White Democrats regained control of State Legislatures in 1876 and a national compromise on the presidential election resulted in the removal of federal troops and official end to Reconstruction. There continued to be violence around elections to suppress black voting, particularly with the rise of the Populist Party and some victories by Populist-Republican candidates in the 1890s.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lynching_in_the_United_States

    The Jim Crow laws were racial segregation state and local laws enacted after the Reconstruction period in Southern United States that continued in force until 1965 mandating de jure racial segregation in all public facilities in Southern U.S. states (of the former Confederacy), starting in 1890 with a "separate but equal" status for African Americans. Conditions for African Americans were consistently inferior and underfunded compared to those provided for white Americans. This decision institutionalized a number of economic, educational and social disadvantages. De jure segregation mainly applied to the Southern United States, while Northern segregation was generally de facto — patterns of segregation in housing enforced by covenants, bank lending practices and job discrimination, including discriminatory union practices for decades.

    Jim Crow laws mandated the segregation of public schools, public places and public transportation, and the segregation of restrooms, restaurants and drinking fountains for whites and blacks. The U.S. military was also segregated, as were federal workplaces, initiated in 1913 under President Woodrow Wilson, the first Southern president elected since 1856. His administration practiced overt racial discrimination in hiring, requiring candidates to submit photos.

    These Jim Crow laws followed the 1800–1866 Black Codes, which had previously restricted the civil rights and civil liberties of African Americans. Segregation of public (state-sponsored) schools was declared unconstitutional by the Supreme Court of the United States in 1954 in Brown v. Board of Education. Generally, the remaining Jim Crow laws were overruled by the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and the Voting Rights Act of 1965 but years of action and court challenges were needed to unravel numerous means of institutional discrimination. Such challenges continue.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jim_Crow_laws

    The position of most black men, relative to white men, is no better than how things stood after the passage of the Civil Rights Act in 1965. That's the sobering conclusion of a new paper out from University of Chicago economists Derek Neal and Armin Rick, who find that the considerable economic progress among black men between 1940 and 1980 has halted, and in many cases reversed.

    A major driver of this shift has been the rise of more punitive treatments for criminal offenders, resulting in skyrocketing incarceration rates. These changes 'have had a much larger impact on black communities than white communities because arrest rates have historically been much greater for blacks than whites,' the authors write.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2014/07/15/charting-the-shocking-rise-of-racial-disparity-in-our-criminal-justice-system/

I definitely think racism is racism, no matter who's the target. But I also think the US must reckon with our troubling history of enforcing white supremacy, and this will require some sort of reparation. Imagine: a woman has her purse stolen. Some years later, after the thief and woman have died, and the purse has passed on to the thief's heir, the crime is exposed. Is it unjust to take the purse from the thief's heir and return it to the woman's?

Grendel  ·  3231 days ago  ·  link  ·  

So now you've gone from dismissing my opinion because I'm not a black American to dismissing the opinions of black Americans. Your sarcasm is greatly appreciated, too.

galen  ·  3231 days ago  ·  link  ·  

When did I ever dismiss your opinion because you're not a black American? And no, I'm not dismissing the opinions of black Americans, I'm dismissing the absurd notion that six pieces of anecdotal evidence constitute justification for an otherwise unsupported argument regarding a general trend amongst a population of 45 million.

I apologize for my sarcasm, it's just that your position stems from a place of such ridiculous misinformation (e.g.) that it's difficult to do anything but mock it.

Grendel  ·  3231 days ago  ·  link  ·  

The argument is that black people need to start taking some responsibility for their lives and stop using racism as an alibi for their misery. Do you disagree with that, and why? Attacking my person, calling me misinformed, etc, won't be considered an acceptable answer.

galen  ·  3231 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I disagree with how you've framed the argument. Your argument, as originally conveyed, was that black Americans have an annoying habit of blaming all their problems on whites. My original retort (through implication) was that black problems are frequently actually caused by racism, and I later edited that comment to convey an additional assertion, viz. that fighting to success is substantially harder for minorities in America. This is in contrast to the strawman claim that black people cannot succeed through hard work, which serves your argument (that black people should just work instead of complaining about racism) much better than acceptance of my argument does.

I do not disagree that black people should work to achieve success. But I do disagree that if everyone just shut up about racism, everything would be fixed. The fact is that there are visibly harmful remnants of past racism and visibly harmful manifestations of present racism that continue to affect minorities in this country and will not be solved without meaningful public dialogue; furthermore, I see the original post as a response to the unfortunate reality that many POCs see no remaining recourse for fighting oppression than to express violent emotion, whether that's manifested in rants, rioting, or terrorism.

Justice is not achieved by placing the burden of achieving equality on an oppressed minority. Justice is achieved when visible and invisible manifestations of oppression are alleviated; when the majority owns its mistakes, apologizes, and then fixes them; when the minority no longer has to work so much harder than the majority to achieve success that the gap between the average wealths of the historical majority and of the poorest minority is $105,774.

PS Crucial distinction: I never attacked your person. I said your position stemmed from misinformation, which was directly relevant to the argument. I never said you were misinformed about everything, nor that you were stupid, nor however you interpreted my (admittedly somewhat unnecessarily biting) claim.

Grendel  ·  3231 days ago  ·  link  ·  

In other words, your response to my criticism of the black community's toxic victim mentality is to simply reassert that blacks are oppressed and that white folks are the problem, and now you're even trying to imply that it's okay for a black person to express his anger through terrorism? And you wonder why there's no "meaningful public dialogue" on racism?

I'm trying to imagine what it must be like to be a white person in America today, and to be considered "privileged" even though your life kind of sucks and you have to work your ass off like everyone else, and to have to listen to someone tell you that it's all your fault if black people are poor and violent, that you have to apologise, and somehow fix their problems, which probably translates to special treatment and free stuff.

If my position stems from misinformation, yours stems from delusion. You seriously think this kind of attitude is conducive to the end of racism? You're treating whiteness like some kind of original sin that white people have to repent for, while using words like "equality" and "justice". If this is how the average American anti-racist reasons, I expect blacks to still be an oppressed minority long after Asians (who themselves used to be an oppressed minority) have overthrown whites and become the dominant group. Who are you going to blame then?

_refugee_  ·  3230 days ago  ·  link  ·  

This is what that white American you are trying to picture sounds like: "My life isn't ideal! I have to, like, I don't know, work at stuff sometimes! This shit stinks. How can anyone say that the vast majority of other people in my country have it worse off than I do, considering I still have to, like, do stuff that I don't always want to do like pay my fines and taxes?"

Sure the average white American does have to, like, get by in society. No, they can't just wave a magic wand and have whatever they want without struggle work or hardship. Guess what. It's easily possible for other classes of people to still have it way worse.

So yeah if you're white and average and american and you had a bad day, maybe it's off-putting when someone else tells you that what you just went through isn't shit. It could get on one's nerves.

God it just sucks when someone points out I don't have the biggest problems, it sucks even more when someone points out that, of the possible problems a person could have, mine are probably the smallest, because then I realize what a fucking DICK I am for playing the world's tiniest violin.

shiranaihito  ·  3227 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I agree with you. For whatever it's worth, "galen" is "crazy" in Swedish. I can't help but wonder if he's being honest with you here.

Grendel  ·  3227 days ago  ·  link  ·  

As much as I wish he was a troll, I think he's serious. The opinions he's expressing are mainstream; we're the crazy ones.

shiranaihito  ·  3227 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    As much as I wish he was a troll, I think he's serious.

These days I'm fairly certain people like him are just psychopaths playing games with us. They see that we care about the truth, and then they proceed to fuck with us by spewing endless reams of sophistry for us to unpack.

    The opinions he's expressing are mainstream; we're the crazy ones.

That's true. But I bet in reality, neurotypical human beings who: 1) are very intelligent, 2) feel strongly about an issue, and 3) are genuinely, severely irrational are rare. Therefore, it's relatively safe to assume that people who seem like a match are actually psychopaths fucking with us.

See some recent responses to my messages for example. Intellectual dishonesty combined with hostility / shaming, etc.

galen  ·  3231 days ago  ·  link  ·  

1. I'm fucking white.

2. I'm tired of responding to your ridiculous series of strawmen. So.

galen  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Fine, so that one instance of black-imposed hardship has nothing to do with white antagonism. But you can't:

a.) Generalize complaints about that to all black people blaming all their problems on white people, or

b.) Imply, as you did, that there's never justification for blaming white people.

(or c. be a dick about it by reducing the results of the centuries-long struggle of an oppressed minority to fucking "quite annoying")

thenewgreen  ·  3233 days ago  ·  link  ·  

As an American, I can only say that this habit of non-Americans, or anyone else, generalizing an entire swath of people as "blaming their problems" on anything is... Well, stupid.

You're claims are baseless. I am American that knows, is friends with, works with and associates daily with African Americans and I have zero experience with that.

Grendel  ·  3233 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I have American friends who beg to differ, and this isn't the first anti-white rant I read.

AfraidofVWoolf  ·  3233 days ago  ·  link  ·  

What part of the post was anti-white to you? The word "white" was only used twice, one when referring to white-only fountains, something that did happen in our history, and the second,

    White supremacy is a weight that continues to stunt the growth of the black american even today.

is, I'd agree, a pretty blanket statement, but to say it holds no truth in any area of the United States would be wrong.

Grendel  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

All of it. The post is practically soaked in hatred for white people.

Quatrarius  ·  3233 days ago  ·  link  ·  
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Ty-Guy  ·  3233 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Haha nice burn, but let's try to keep it clean, man.

tacocat  ·  3233 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Which institutionally oppressed minorities in your country have overcome centuries of racism to become unequivocal social equals? We need a model for reform over here

kleinbl00  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  
tacocat  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Well, the sun never comes out over there so everything is kinda grey

Grendel  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

In my country, I don't know, but Italians used to be an oppressed minority in the USA. Not any more, largely because they changed that perception with the sweat of their hard work. Blacks seem to have decided that it's easier to play the eternal victims. The Irish are another people that suffered discrimination at the hands of Americans, and survived to tell the tale. More than anything, the black community seems to be the victim of its own mentality, of which the OP is an example. Bill Cosby agrees with me.

kleinbl00  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

An Italian who comes to America has an accent. His children don't. They can oppress the Germans.

A German who comes to America has an accent. His children don't. They can oppress the Chinese.

A Chinese who comes to America has an accent. His children won't. They can oppress the Mexicans.

A Mexican who comes to America has an accent. HIs children won't. They can oppress the blacks.

And the fucked up thing is the blacks have been here longer than any of them.

All of the above except the Chinese pass as white as soon as they lose the accent. The Chinese? Well, "asian" isn't exactly an unoppressed minority but asians have only been grossly mistreated and taken advantage of in the United States. They've never been out-and-out owned. Meanwhile, the Reconstruction south wasn't slavery but it sure as hell was Apartheid and baseball went color a mere six years before television so it's not like the US has a storied history of color-blindness. But that's okay because, you know, Bill Cosby.

There's a difference between "stop perpetuating the stereotype" and "stop getting shot by cops." No one is denying correlation; we're arguing that it's a long goddamn way from 100%.

Grendel  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Just so you know, Italians and Mexicans are not universally recognised as white even today (this is the first time I talk to someone who thinks of Mexicans as white). The Irish were sold as slaves in the hundreds of thousands. Chinese people could also end up being slaves, and in general were second class citizens at best.

It's fucking sad how you feel the need to downplay the misfortunes of other groups just so you can cling to the belief that blacks are the most oppressed, the biggest victims, the quintessential minority. Even some members of the black community are getting sick and tired of this attitude, and that's saying something! The very people who risk getting shot by the cops by virtue of their skin colour are saying "stop blaming everything on racism, and start fixing yourselves."

_refugee_  ·  3230 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Just so you know, Italians and Mexicans are not universally recognised as white even today

Cool. Last time I checked tho we were talking about 'Murrica. Fuck yeah!

ButterflyEffect  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Not any more, largely because they changed that perception with the sweat of their hard work.

Oh, I see, so if only African-Americans continued working hard and sweating in the fields the whole slavery problem would have sorted itself out. If only somebody had this kind of attitude in the mid 19th century, we could have avoided the Civil War.

Grendel  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Well, you asked a question, you got an answer. My point is that blacks are not the only group that started at the bottom of the social ladder, but as far as I know, they're the only ones who refuse to climb it. For many of them, crime seems to have become part of their identity. Even if white-on-black racism were to completely disappear tomorrow, blacks would continue to blame their problems on the racist crackas and their history of slavery.

arguewithatree  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

This is hilariously misguided. White on white homicide occurs at the same rate, and black on black crime has decreased significantly in the last 40 years. (FBI)

additionally, your hypothetical statement about racism disappearing tomorrow is incredibly flawed. I'm not sure how you're defining racism, but it would be impossible to undo the systemically racist features of society in a single day without causing massive structural upheaval so until you elaborate on this, I can't respond

tacocat  ·  3232 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I think they lost that perception when they became acceptably white. The Irish used to be oppressed here too. And Catholics weren't seen very highly. And tell me about the laws that kept the Irish from voting. And the all Irish public schools. I missed those history lessons but I heard about that happening to black people a generation ago.

If you look white there's really no way to assess specific European ethnicity in America aside from maybe your last name. I have a Scottish last name but I'm mostly English. And when did agreeing with Bill Cosby's smug ass become a positive for anyone? It's not even a positive for Jello anymore.