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am_Unition  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Trevor Noah's Full Speech at 2022 White House Correspondents' Dinner

Trevor Noah proves that the people saying "we can't make jokes anymore because everyone gets offended so easily!" really just wanted license to continue being openly racist, sexist, and anti-LGBTQ+.

But let's say you only have license to really savage your own gender, race, and sexual orientation. Holy hell, as a white cis-hetero male, I once again find myself at an advantage.

Caught a few minutes of a recent Chappelle's stand-up set, and it was... yikes. It's only funny to one political bent; Fascists and fascist-adjacents. What a disappointing career trajectory.





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kleinbl00  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Chappelle is popular with Edgelords Of A Certain Age because he was their Richord Pryor when they were in high school/early college. Their parents were offended, the jokes were transgressive, he was on basic cable, and young adult males are presumed to be assholes until proven otherwise so the punching down humor and basic cruelty of it all was forgiven.

Dane Cook was very popular at the same time, as was Bill Maher. Dane Cook, of course, being an angry punching-down version of Steve Martin and Bill Maher being an angry punching-down version of George Carlin. Dane Cook was eliminated by the comics themselves, who pointed out (rightly) that much of his material was lifted from Louis CK and Joe Rogan, whose stars ascended as the edgelords stopped caring about the funny and homed in on the offense as serious thought leaders of the New Right. Bill Maher followed a similar trajectory where "being funny" matters a whole lot less than "annoy my liberal coworkers."

Dave Chappelle, for his part, pretty much abandoned the world when he realized that his schtick wasn't making people laugh the way it used to, and then came back when he realized that Edgelords Of A Certain Age will happily laugh at mediocre humor if it targets the same thing they hate. It's amusing to me that the same people who will die on a hill professing that Dave Chappelle is being "cancelled" will freely and happily admit that Dennis Miller just isn't funny without recognizing that audiences are allowed more leeway to laugh at a misogynistic black man than they are a misogynistic white man.

It's really this simple: you're allowed puerile humor until your early '20s, at which point normies gain a little sophistication. The Joe Rogan/Louis CK/Dave Chappelle/Dane Cook/Bill Maher crowd has never advanced beyond puerile humor. Those under the age of 25, however, have an entirely different set of people they want to laugh at, and "the vulnerable" are not among them. So you stop writing jokes for puerile kids and instead write jokes for the Alex Jones crowd.

goobster  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I have a weird relationship with Dave Chappelle ... I never found him very funny. I think us senior GenXers are just outside of the Chappelle window... we had SNL and SCTV, while the younger of my generation had Kids In The Hall, Almost Live, In Living Color, Up All Night, etc., and I never really liked that era of comedy. Which is where people like Chappelle and Chris Rock and the Wayans brothers came up.

So I missed that boat.

But Dave Letterman's new show, "My Next Guest Needs No Introduction" is a long-form interview format where Dave just sits and talks with someone he likes/respects very much.

His interview with Dave Chappelle was fascinating and made me love Chappelle, and what he has done with his life. The little town he lives in. The way he lives with his family and friends, and the community he has created around him as he has matured and mellowed over time.

... then this trans-phobic dude comes out of Chappelle's skin, and starts saying really stupid, ill-informed shit about an entire class of people who are finally getting some liberty and recognition, and not being ground under the boot of white American culture-leaders... and Chappelle takes the ENTIRELY wrong position.

And doubles-down on it. Again and again.

I have a hard time squaring the quiet, respectful, community-building family-man I saw Dave Letterman interview, with the on-stage dipshittery of Dave Chappelle's "comedy" show?!?

I'm not losing anything by tuning out Dave Chappelle, and I will happily continue to do so. But I wonder where the split is in his brain, where he fails to apply his worldview and generosity equally, and especially in the case of an abused minority, like trans people.

It's weird that he doesn't see it.

kleinbl00  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Al Franken pointed out that Rush Limbaugh is a legendarily good tipper. He also pointed out that the difference between a liberal mindset and a conservative mindset is that conservatives will often be breathtakingly generous for causes and people they like without feeling any compunction to those they don't, while liberals hold that being generous only counts if you are generous towards everyone.

"He loves his family and friends" is hardly something you say about an altruist.

goobster  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I also think there is some 'hashtag populism' going on here, as well.

The conservative will donate if you say the right buzz words, regardless of the overall message or who the messenger is.

The liberal will be skeptical of your hashtags and your messenger, and will be looking for why NOT to give to your cause.

b_b  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I think Al is right, and I actually think it's one of the things that's wrong with the Left. I know so many leftists who are shitty people up close but who work tirelessly for Causes. On the other hand most of my conservative friends are some of the best friends you could have in a moment of crisis, despite their shortcomings vis-a-vis humanity. My small anecdotal sample notwithstanding, I think this is clearly an area where we could learn from each other.

kleinbl00  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

To tie it all back to the chicken-fucking book, conservatives demonstrate their tribal loyalty by showing preference towards those they have a cultural affinity to. Liberals demonstrate their tribal loyalty by showing no preference towards those they have a cultural affinity to.

I think it's easier to be a misanthropic conservative because if you hate the right people, everyone who matters will put up with the fact that you hate them, too. It's tough being a misanthropic liberal because you're supposed to be above all that. I'd put it this way: you have a cultural bias towards non-shitty conservatives because they're putting up with you. Meanwhile you swim in a vast sea of liberals - you "know so many leftists" who are shitty but "most of your conservative friends" are great.

b_b  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

To put it another way: I’ve been to a shitload of Phish shows, but I’ve never been to CPAC

kleinbl00  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Oh. Dude. Say no more. Speaking as someone who paid for college mixing bands in clubs, from swing to death metal to punk to ska to disco, allow me to assert with no quaver in my voice that there is no shittier crowd on earth than a jam band crowd. That there is a hypocritical, self-satisfied set of smug-ass smarmy sociopaths.

b_b  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I think it's that he made one joke in one comedy special that the internet freaked out about so he decided to make everything that came after about the people freaking out and not the material itself. The fact that no one can see that is itself sort of amusing.

Ricky Gervais had a trans bit in his most recent special and the internet seemed to not notice, so there's been no need for him to address it, I guess. Or maybe it's because everyone already knows he's a nihilist and wouldn't care one way or the other was the critique is, whereas Chappelle very deliberately makes contrasts to the civil rights movement and the neo sexual revolutions, which I think rubs people the wrong way. Richard Pryor did the same thing back in the 70s...agreed to do a gay rights rally, then lambasted everyone for looking away during the Watts riots. It made the whites mad.

goobster  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Gervais and Chappelle were saying different things.

Chappelle denies that transgender is a valid thing to be.

Gervais said he doesn't fucking care if you are trans or not.

One denied your existence, the other doesn't care. I think that's an important distinction.

(Of course, Gervais being a straight white middle aged man from a western country has the privilege of not having to care about others. Which is problematic, as well. But we know he knows that, too.)

b_b  ·  560 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Did you watch the Gervais special? He does several minutes on how he thinks it's fucked up that saying "women don't have penises" is controversial.

kleinbl00  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Oh, the Internet noticed Gervais. They were upset. The thing is, Gervais picks on everyone. Much like Trey Parker and Matt Stone attempt, no one is safe from Gervais' humor so you can't band up with other offended groups.

b_b  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I didn't notice that the internet noticed, which says something, because I'm not on the internet other than here and major news sites. I sure as fuck noticed that the internet noticed Chappelle, because even the NYT has run a gajillion op-eds about what we should all think about it.

kleinbl00  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It's fair to say that the normies noticed the Internet noticing Chappelle because the people looking to dunk on Chappelle are better connected than the people looking to dunk on Gervais.

The NY Times can't concern-troll Gervais because he has targeted everyone. They can concern-troll the shit out of Chappelle because they get to do their performative "we're liberal trust us but because we love you we will only single out liberal targets as if we were conservatives."

am_Unition  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yep.

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kleinbl00  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Honestly I think Amy Schumer is a breath of fresh air. She's a raunchy, self-deprecating individual who happens to be female, which means the very people who will go to their graves insisting on Chapelle's right to offend people will also die on the hill that Amy Schumer must STFU for the betterment of society.

I don't follow standup much; I read Tiffany Haddish's The Last Black Unicorn and found her positively charming. I think there's a real difference between what you can do with humor and what you should do with humor. Tiffany Haddish manages to relate a story about dating a mentally retarded man that paints him in nothing but a glowing, approving light while also deprecating herself for not being willing to make it work while the comedians I listed above will slag on the mentally disabled as a go-to bit.

I really think it's far simpler than anybody wants to pretend. We all laugh at a comedian who laughs at themselves. Some of us laugh at a comedian who makes fun of the same things we hate. If you watch Eddie Murphy Raw, most of the jokes are at his own expense. Not all, but most. ALL of his negative press comes from laughing at others. George Carlin? His targets were always the powerful.

If anything I think the real shift towards un-funny comedians is the cyclical attempt by The Right to win even a single skirmish in the culture wars. They never do, they never will, but every now and then they try. Ben Shapiro? Failed comic. Kellyanne Conway? Failed comic. The Right hasn't always challenged everyone else's right to existence but it sure is their thing these days. That makes them the butt of every joke, as it should. To no one's surprise, The Right is also full of people with no sense of humor or humility, and they don't like being the butt of every joke. So they champion people who say mean things that can be interpreted as funny if you take pleasure from punching down.

When I grew up there was one form of deprecatory humor that was safe, no matter what: Polack jokes. Not "Polish Jokes" because then you don't get the dig in from the very title. Note that it was only safe because there wasn't anyone Polish around - and frankly, what with the way the Iron Curtain was shaping up we had no reason to believe we'd ever meet anyone Polish. My own mother, fully half Jew, loved to tell jokes created largely to advance the German annihilation of ethnic minorities. This has always been the way of lazy humor - find an easy target that can't fight back and dehumanize it. Unfortunately for the lazy, the more global our society becomes the fewer defenseless targets you will find. This is undoubtedly why I didn't learn what a "beaner" was until I moved out of state - where I grew up, the Chicanos had a culture an easy 200 years older than the Gringos and while they were a long way from dominant, they were a long way from accepting white people's bullshit. Making fun of black people? Very off the table. Making fun of Native Americans? Yeah no, we studied the hell out of their culture. Persecuted Eastern European minorities? Might as well pick on the Martians.

There's a big, primitive swath of humanity that defines itself by what it is not. If you read Graeber, he'll argue that most societies define themselves in opposition of the cultures around them rather than in terms of their internal commonalities. The less tribal we become the more inclusive, but the less tribal we become the less room there is for Dave Chappelle's humor.

Devac  ·  560 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    When I grew up there was one form of deprecatory humor that was safe, no matter what: Polack jokes. [...] Persecuted Eastern European minorities? Might as well pick on the Martians.

In 2003-ish, there was a pretty big market for cheaply printed joke books in Poland, and one month they printed Black jokes. Someone objected to it as offensive, so they reprinted a find-and-replace version with same material, but this time about Blue people. I guess it's both the proof and a show of just how lazy comedy can be.

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kleinbl00  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Haha but I mean Don Rickles' golden era was, like, the Cuban Missile Crisis. That's back when everyone was amazed by Lucille Ball not because she was a genius but because she was a girl. Here's Don Rickles-era Richord Pryor:

Don Rickles was a white man who picked on white men because American society consisted entirely of white men and don't you forget it. The context has very much shifted since then, and this is A Good Thing, no matter what the conservatives say.

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kleinbl00  ·  561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm saying that the milieu in which Don Rickles operated was, culturally, a million miles from now.

Don Rickles was closer in time to Amos & Andy than we are to Pinkie & The Brain.

Don Rickles was doing stand-up while Lenny Bruce was being arrested. While Carlin was doing Seven Dirty Words. Don Rickles was famous before Adam Sandler was born.

I'm saying Don Rickles is not relevant to the discussion, because the age of Don Rickles' humor is as relevant to humor today as the flying era of Amelia Earhart is to Kobe Bryant's crash.

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am_Unition  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

At one point, yes, totally a grand star. Chappelle's Show, back in the early-to-mid 2000's, was pretty ingenious. Like the Player Hater's Ball sketch. He was mostly riffing on what he knew, what he had experienced. Or the playing Prince in basketball sketch. Not sure how factual that second sketch is, but if it's fiction, it's pretty harmless hilarity.

edit2: lol OK, those sketches ain't exactly non-racist, non-sexist, or LGBTQ+ neutral. I will admit that times have changed. The American left has made perhaps too many things taboo, whereas the American right has made taboo almost impossible. I dunno, it used to be somewhat self-deprecatory, now it just seems deprecatory.

Fast forward to now. The "bit" I heard was him saying during a stand-up set (paraphrased), "Well, I looked up the definition of 'feminist', and it turns out, I'm actually a feminist. All this time, I thought it was a frumpy, dissatisfied, complaining woman." Or something like that. Won't link. Perhaps worse than the political inclination, It's straight up lazy comedy. Very low-effort. Contradictory, and totally unironic.

The weirdest thing is that after Chappelle's Show blew up, on Comedy Central, he took a semi-permanent hiatus because of all the pressure, culturally and financially and otherwise, I guess. Apparently, the lesson he learned on that hiatus was how to kill his conscience and maximize his profit-to-effort ratio.

But still, whoever made an attempt to physically harm Dave on stage during a performance a few months ago deserves 100% condemnation. Physical violence is for stupid chumps.

edit: yeah sorry, comedy is my #1 coping mechanism combatting my nihilist inclinations, it's hilarious

b_b  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You calling Chapelle a fascist apologist is how I know that you spend way too much time on Twitter.

am_Unition  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

A refusal to understand how transphobia is being weaponized to demonize an out group doesn't mean it isn't happening.

b_b  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Whether your argument is true or false has no bearing on the fact that it isn’t fascist-adjacent.

am_Unition  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

"Whether my argument that Chappelle is fascist-adjacent is true or not has no bearing on the fact that Chappelle isn't fascist-adjacent."

...maybe you should spend... more time on Twitter? No, that can't be right

edit: we've birthed a new logical fallacy, congrats

b_b  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I never thought arguing with you would turn into a Twitter-style race to the bottom. You're too smart for that. You're defining fascism as "speech I don't like, don't agree with, and may allow others to feel more comfortable with being intolerant". Of course it becomes tautological when you're arguing from a made up, self-serving definition. Calling things fascism sounds smarter than calling things Nazism, because that dead horse has been beaten to the point it's not recognizable. It's doesn't make it any more correct.

am_Unition  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

No, you're too smart to be so quick to denounce uncomfortable ideas as "Twitter-like".

It's literally Weimar shit, thanks for pointing that out, and btw the idea that the first person to breach Godwin's law or, here, when I point out a classic facet of fascism somehow makes me lose an argument serves... who?

It's not just me, scholars of fascist history draw a direct line between stoking transphobia and fascism, and we're wrong, because... we've decided we also don't like fascism?

I am defining fascism as the most-commonly accepted definition of fascism. When Dave made offensive jokes 18 or so years ago, we weren't in the midst of such a clearly regressive slide wherein political candidates for office were running on revoking rights for (and even refusing the acknowledgement of!) transsexuals.

    You're defining fascism as "speech... [that] may allow others to feel more comfortable with being intolerant"

Yep! That's literally a part of fascism.

Am I saying Chappelle shouldn't be able to make transphobic jokes? No. I am lamenting the fact that he's found such a large audience for them in this current climate. And he is too smart to get a pass on not knowing any better.

b_b  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You only think we're in a regressive slide because you're losing the forest for the trees. When I graduated high school in 2000 there were 3 openly gay people that I was aware of in the entire school, which comprised about 2500 students. And transgender people just simply didn't exist as a part of public life. "Fag" was probably the most common insult almost everywhere. Compare that to today, and we're regressing in the same sense that Bill Gates's fortune regresses when the stock market has a normal noise fluctuation downward compared to what he had before Microsoft was a thing. It would be weird if there weren't societal friction given the radical changes in public life over the last decade or two. Friction isn't fascism. And friction due to giant leaps forward in the way people think should be welcomed, since it's the way we work through things. Denouncing everything you disagree with as fascism pretty much white washes fascism and helps ensure that when truly fascistic things happen that no one will pay any attention since it's hard enough to separate the signal from the noise.

am_Unition  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yes, I agree that the social pendulum swings, but if you can't see how ruthlessly the LGBTQ+ -phobia has been co-opted by the clearly fascist MAGA movement, I don't know what to tell you.

And I have a very clear set of criteria for what I identify as fascist, or fascist-enabling, fascism-adjacent, etc.

Truly fascistic things are happening.

(just for your everlasting love of the .gif, and a big shoutout to Ron and Rand Paul)

b_b  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It’s been a seismic shift, not a pendulum swing. There’s a big difference.

am_Unition  ·  562 days ago  ·  link  ·  

The acceptance/tolerance of LGBTQ+ is a seismic shift?

edit: Genuinely asking, this isn't a "gotcha" trap. I think that's what you meant, but it was unclear if you meant that the backlash was seismic. I think I know now that you meant the success of the LGBT movement.