Your analogy may be correct, but you're missing one important factor in the equation, which I call: Heisenberg's Principle of Uncertain-teen. "According" to "Wikipedia": It is still largely unexplored field of science.In quantum adolescence, the uncertain-teen principle is any of a variety of mathematical inequalities asserting a fundamental limit to the precision with which certain pairs of physical properties of a particle known as complementary variables, such as emotion x and rationalization p, can be acted upon simultaneously.
(slow clap) I'm sorry, doctor, but I believe you are neglecting the "expectational breakdown" described by Schroedinger's Emoquation whereby the act of interrogating the system for the value of emotion x forces a breakdown of the wave/particle duality for rationalization p thereby ejecting the relationship out of quantum hopefulness and into practical despair or jubilance.
No matter how much you dissect this: your relationship, or any other friendship or conflict or anything right now– there's gonna be a big huge gap of uncertainty, unpredictability, and consequent frustration. I meant it as a joke, but it acts to remind that you shouldn't lose your head quite yet if you're frustrated at the moment– relationships in this time of our life man, they're not going to make sense whether you like it or not.