When I look at social institutions like marriage, weddings, etc. all I see is crumbling roman ruins.
It seems as though we have to create our own meaningful events and ceremonies, cut and paste traditions like arts and crafts. Engagements are not typically very long in our culture- I intend for mine to last the better part of a decade, if not more.
Create your own meaning bruh. That's the beauty of it, we get to decide.