NPR has been having a series in the mornings where they look into stories of elderly being targeted by financial scams. Even with no signs of dementia, people get more susceptible to these scams as they age and lose their ability to discern trustworthiness. Not related, but my SO and I were walking by the bust stop one day and a guy came up and said he needed some particular small amount to make the bus. My immediate suspicion was that the story was bunk, but my SO had already given him the few bucks he supposedly needed for the trip. We weren’t even out of earshot before he was asking someone else for the change he just received.
In the old movies they ask if you can spare a dime. I never heard someone ask for less than a quarter, and remember the first time I heard someone ask for a dollar. Naming a specific price seems to be a good strategy; it lends some credibility. Then there's the guy who appears to have read the tour book guide describing the exact patter to watch out for, because he follows the car-broke-down, need-bus-fare script word for word. I've often wondered what I would do if I needed some cash and didn't have a way to get it without asking a stranger.
Manipulative, but assuming I look the same as I do now I bet I could quietly cry and look distressed next to the train station and someone will offer to buy me the ticket I need. Strangers are generally willing to help. So maybe just asking will work.
offer an item of clothing, hopefully something like a watch that has some amount of value, but if not, go all in and try the shirt or shoes. no one is going to be comfortable accepting, but it'll go a long way toward founding your story in reality.I've often wondered what I would do if I needed some cash and didn't have a way to get it without asking a stranger.
"Seventeen dollars and a hell of a nice watch." There's the risk that someone will be comfortable giving you $50 for your Piaget Polo, but we are talking about desperate measures.
There used to be a bun who would ask for an exact amount like $1.23. If you gave him a $1.25 he'd insist on making you change. I think it was just his funny little schtick. Most bus drivers in town will let you ride for free if you ask them nicely. They aren't supposed to haggle over fairs because such arguments often end in physical conflict. Lots of bus drivers get assulted every year