There are issues here not even touched on. 1) Student loan debt is guaranteed. If you have a public loan, and I service it, and you default, the government pays me the value of the loan. Then the government gets to send you to collections. Which means they sell the debt to a private party for ten cents on the dollar so that the private party can hound you forever. 2) Student loan debt is poorly managed. There are three companies that handle federal student loans and they make the mortgage industry ca. Countrywide look like the Gnomes of Zurich. Paperwork is poorly handled. Notices are lost. Continuity is non-existent. The goal is to make students miss payments which pushes back amnesty programs. 3) Amnesty programs are ignored. Essential profession amnesty is supposed to be granted after 120 payments. The first round of students became eligible about 18 months ago. Something like 10,000 should be eligible. Less than 200 have been granted forgiveness. 4) Private loan companies are competing for the debt. In 2011 there were $40b in private student loans. In 2018 there's $125b. 5) Boomers hold more student loan debt than millennials or GenY.. That'd be parents underwriting their kids' student loans. Which can't be disbursed short of death. I mean, yeah. The numbers suck. But if those were mortgages the guys who wrote the mortgages would take a bath, so would their investors, so would their creditors and we go back to zero. They're student loans which means the government has to pay them all AND everybody who can't pay has their financial health ruined for a decade or more.
Student loans are the reason my daughter, with two attorneys as parents, is going to be an only child.
I can believe it. We initially thought we'd be okay once she's in kindergarten, but then remembered that even assuming we can get after-school through the county, she'll have to be in something full time for the summer.
Exactly, and that was part of our consideration: do we give the best possible life to one or have to start picking and choosing? It didn't seem fair to me to reduce our daughter's quality of life on behalf of a sibling, or fair to the sibling to do less for them than for our first.