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kleinbl00  ·  2812 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Nightmares of the End (Kinda graphic language)

A Freudian would argue that your dream is about your fear that you lack personal agency. Finding something that matters to you that you can control, that you feel responsible for, that you have the ability to influence could potentially reduce the stress in your life. Not talkin' running for office, talkin' like a window garden.

The dead kid could go a few ways.





War  ·  2812 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I've been thinking of taking up a hobby actually.

EDIT: Maybe knitting, reading, or small amounts of gardening

OftenBen  ·  2812 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I have a window planter with some tomatoes, basil, and a mint plant. I like having something alive to tend to that isn't a pet.

oyster  ·  2812 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Knitting and gardening are both awesome hobbies to chose from.

oyster  ·  2812 days ago  ·  link  ·  

What does driving a mattress around my city mean ?

kleinbl00  ·  2812 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Anxiety related to social obligation, such as commuting, queueing in lines, etc.

oyster  ·  2812 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Interesting, I wish I remembered if I was driving anywhere new the next day.

kleinbl00  ·  2812 days ago  ·  link  ·  

There is no correlation between "when you dream" and "what instigated the dream". Dream state has a lot more to do with stress levels, sleep time, emotional state, what cheese you had before bed, etc.

Oh yes I did. I did just totally link to an Erowid trip report on Stilton.

oyster  ·  2812 days ago  ·  link  ·  

The description of that cheese actually sounds really good but 14 year old me would have glossed right over that and just headed to the store to buy tons.

I was pretty angry at the other drivers after I loaded my groceries onto my mattress and just tried to get home so maybe it was bottled up stress.

kleinbl00  ·  2812 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Anxiety dreams are pretty much 100% bottled up stress.

Stilton is tasty, particularly with dried apricots, dates or figs. It's challenging to a developing palette.