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comment by _refugee_
_refugee_  ·  3498 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Coffee Talks

"Why are we still friends?" is a great question, so long as the person being asked it won't just get offended.

Sometimes questions that sound offensive at first blush are actually just honest, curious, inquisitive - and tell much.





lil  ·  3498 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It was a real inquiry. He was referring to me and several others from that period in his life. He had just been to a birthday party from one of my cohort.

_refugee_  ·  3498 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I figured it had to be.

We have spoken recently about friends that, when the reasons behind that are examined, maybe shouldn't still be friends.

But with friends of merit? That could lead to great discussion.