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lil  ·  3550 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, what did you learn about yourself from your last relationship?

You define.

If the last one-nighter led to an icky feeling, we'll learn that maybe we're not the one-night stand type. If the one-nighter led to a great enduring friendship, we learn that we're a good judge of character. We potentially learn from everything.

Mostly I had in mind a break-up that creates some painful feelings -- as in -- I don't want to feel this way again -- what can I take away from this, what can I learn that will help me make future choices? Is that any clearer?





_refugee_  ·  3550 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It is, and I thought that was more of what you were gunning for.

I think I have mostly learned that I am a terrible judge of people. :(

Or that I secretly am maybe not that interested in being in a relationship.