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ButterflyEffect  ·  1382 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Soon we’ll all be cancelled

I see a fair a bit of sharing themselves in chat ever since mk made the big change to it. But yes, I by and large agree with you - though to a small aspect of flagamuffin‘s point, it’s difficult to make the time to share myself in a way that’s satisfactory (see: the six months it took me to write up half of my Bhutan trip).

As an unrelated reason for this, I am less and less comfortable sharing personal details on any forum after seeing the ever increasing weaponization of the Internet. I am close to the point of wishing we all had our own private pay to enter bubbles with no inter connectivity.





user-inactivated  ·  1382 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I am close to the point of wishing we all had our own private pay to enter bubbles with no inter connectivity.

Those are called bars, sewing circles, book clubs, debate clubs, cars and coffee, bowling leagues, etc. They're awesome. Unfortunately, Covid kind of put the brakes on all that.

ButterflyEffect  ·  1382 days ago  ·  link  ·  

For me they’re called mountains ;)

Agree except maybe on bowling leagues. I have complicated thoughts on that one.

elizabeth  ·  1381 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Complicated thoughts about bowling leagues sounds interesting. My only cultural reference in that regard is the Big Lebowski. Is that representative?

ButterflyEffect  ·  1381 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Hah, no, though in a way only the Coen brothers can capture, yes. This goes back to the 50s/60s and the rise and fall and rise and current state fall (again) of bowling in the United States. I grew up bowling, bowled collegiate, and have lots of words to spare on this one between bowling leagues, USBC, the PBA, Bowlero, and the book Bowling Alone.