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OftenBen  ·  1433 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I told someone off today. In an extremely nasty way.

I'm technically poly and make a point to keep it as low key as possible because of dirtbags like this guy.

Keep your head up, even in the drink.

You won't find judgement from me. I've only recently grown a backbone myself.





orbat  ·  1433 days ago  ·  link  ·  

The "hilarious" part is that he's always very much poly (without the actual ethical discussion) when it's his new fling.

Every damn time the tables are reversed, he suddenly turns into a "nuclear family is very important to me" person. Literally fucking said that. Had to laugh in disbelief / grief / sheer terror.