Have you spoken to her about it? It could just be a question of semantics, i.e. what she means by "attracted." Or maybe there's something you said or did that made her (even if incorrectly) think you would feel insecure about her being attracted to other people or something. People are weird, and to my experience it's best not to jump to conclusions until you know just what kind of weirdness you're dealing with.
I confessed to her that I read her forum messages on her Ipad and she just accused me of invading her privacy and her response was "Fu you"
If that's all of the response and there was no desire to figure things out from her end - follow cgod's advice. As hard as it may hit at first, you'll get used to being without the pressure first and then with the softness of the soul loving you truly later.