Bubble bath with a ton of candles because there is nothing relaxing about bathroom lighting has always been my number 1 way to unwind. Recently though I have found my work helps me destress when I get to destroy shrubs and rip roots out of the ground.
Bubble bath in a pitch black bathroom for me, with some music or an audiobook going. One day I'll have a bath tub that I can fit in : / Living in an apt with a 5' tub is lame.
Yard work has always been oddly calming for me, too. People tell me I'm weird for this, but I also find myself loving to take showers in the dark. Kind of similar to the bubble bath, it's just enjoyable because of the lack of sensory input. Makes it very easy to think about life's problems :)
You're not alone in this lot. Came to a point where I just leave the lights off if I'm going to take a shower, even in the daytime. Much more relaxing, in my opinion. Occasionally, I'll put on some Trevor Hall in the background.People tell me I'm weird for this, but I also find myself loving to take showers in the dark.