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AnSionnachRua  ·  4582 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "Genital mutilation is no joke"
Female "circumcision" is commonly called "female genital mutilation" for this reason. I tend to shy away from political word changes (because it tends to just be a euphemism treadmill), but I do prefer FGM over "circumcision".

Barbaric parts of the world...

A tension exists here. On the one hand, we look at other parts of the world, see what they do, and say that it is simply "their" way; they have their own cultural and social meanings, and we have no right to tell them otherwise. On the other hand, sometimes what they do is just wrong to us. FGM is one such thing. It's wrapped up in their cultural meanings, but for the rest of us it is indeed a barbaric practice.

Anyway, male circumcision is a different kettle of fish, I suppose (since FGM is used to control women's sexual behaviour, and causes sex to not be physically pleasing). As a European, I'm quite glad to be intact.





b_b  ·  4582 days ago  ·  link  ·  
To me there are some things that can't be chalked up to cultural differences, and I don't hesitate to call them barbaric. Most of these things satisfy these criteria: tradition, torture, myth and misogyny. In addition to FGM, so called honor killings satisfy these criteria, as does the rape that is endemic to parts of sub-Saharan Africa. I'm sure there are a lot of others that I could brainstorm.

In the West we have the underground sex trade. That fails the religious criteria, so while it is equally disgusting, I think it is more of a law enforcement issue. No one in the main stream would argue against efforts to shut it down.

AnSionnachRua  ·  4581 days ago  ·  link  ·  
Tradition and myth are barbaric?
b_b  ·  4581 days ago  ·  link  ·  
No. Things that are barbaric are torturous, sometimes misogynistic, things that have their roots in tradition and myth.
Jm_Mac  ·  4577 days ago  ·  link  ·  
Decrying misogyny while ignoring misandry is disgusting.
Roger_Green  ·  4569 days ago  ·  link  ·  
"Decrying misogyny while ignoring misandry is disgusting."

I agree. I wish more Americans would see the hypocrisy in this line of thinking, but they just don't and it's frustrating.

thenewgreen  ·  4569 days ago  ·  link  ·  
As is often the case it takes humor to shed light on how ridiculous something is.