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comment by ooli

So she burned you! So you were the fool! You do not seems so smart compare to her after all.. Just joking.

As stated in the article, men consider a "smart" woman, a woman laughing at their jokes... In this sense, any man like a "smart" woman.

A real smart woman is one that make jokes. Even unfunny ones. In this sense men are a bit turned off. Aren't you?





qiy  ·  3394 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Haha yes I am obviously not that bright either :). I'm quite happy to be the un-smart one in the relationship. Isn't that ideal though?

I find active women far more attractive than passive. Being funny (even unfunny) is part of that. I cherish it in my friends and my best relationships.

It seems really strange that this isn't the case for everyone. Sometimes people talk about the patriarchy, which I am ostensibly part of, but I really have no idea what they are reacting to.

People can get intimidated. Maybe I don't. It could ne that I have a habit of overestimating people.