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comment by qiy

Haha yes I am obviously not that bright either :). I'm quite happy to be the un-smart one in the relationship. Isn't that ideal though?

I find active women far more attractive than passive. Being funny (even unfunny) is part of that. I cherish it in my friends and my best relationships.

It seems really strange that this isn't the case for everyone. Sometimes people talk about the patriarchy, which I am ostensibly part of, but I really have no idea what they are reacting to.

People can get intimidated. Maybe I don't. It could ne that I have a habit of overestimating people.