Yeah, well, for some of us, the guy's only interesting for a week. I'm just saying that it's common advice and it's true, but it doesn't mean it is going to solve your problems. I am "not looking" for dates and can accidentally find myself on one about once a week with a different guy. That doesn't mean that that guy is the right one for me. I'm glad you guys have managed to find genuinely interesting people through not-looking, but I don't think it's the only step that one needs to take in order to fulfill the requirements.I've found that the second you stop yearning for a date is the second you accidentally trip over a guy you can genuinely care about.
Jeezus. There goes the water that was in my mouth. Viewed it from chatter and had NO CONTEXT WHATSOEVER for this.