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comment by ButterflyEffect
ButterflyEffect  ·  3977 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Get Therapy

I've been thinking about it for years now. A couple of people have suggested it might be a good idea. I don't know. I've gotten good enough at keeping myself busy enough to avoid the thoughts and things that have made me consider it. I'd have a hard time articulating my problems outside of the occasional alienation of myself from...myself and blocking out the things I don't want to deal with.

I've started writing more recently though, so maybe that's helping. Personal things are vulnerable though and I've never been comfortable with that.





humanodon  ·  3977 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Keeping busy is good, as long as it's to work through things rather than to avoid them. Keep in mind, avoiding dealing with things takes a lot of energy and can add to stress too. Writing is a good way of engaging with things and sometimes a "narrative approach" can be helpful in figuring out how we'd like things to go and what we need to do to achieve that.

ButterflyEffect  ·  3976 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It's more that I work towards things rather than anything else. I'm heavily involved in a few organizations/other things and there's always a goal to be had. It gets very time consuming just because it's extracurricular and in addition to homework, tests, etc.

Most of what I write are meant to be lyrics at some point or another, and based around a moment or situation.

_refugee_  ·  3976 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It has happened to me, not infrequently, that I don't know how I feel about a thing until I write about it. The clarification is more apparent with poetry than prose - because a poem has to take a stance, so I think it tends to draw out latent opinions and condense/finesse them - but I think it's always helpful to write about things. At minimum you can literally see your mind working through things on paper (or a screen).

I used to journal a lot. I'm trying to pick it back up although I'm not great at it. I think it's good for one. I think it can be like meditation in ways.