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insomniasexx  ·  3603 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: UPDATE: Hubski Meetup - Boston, MA - June 7th

Alright I'm officially on Tinder and I already found true love.

That was easy.





_refugee_  ·  3585 days ago  ·  link  ·  

whatever happened with this dude?

insomniasexx  ·  3585 days ago  ·  link  ·  

We met up and had drinks. It was fun. He lives in San Fran and is only in LA for like every other weekend. He was down last weekend when I was in North Carolina and he'll be down this weekend when I'm in Boston so...yeah. He's cool though. We text 24/7 still.

_refugee_  ·  3603 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You assholes, you make it look so easy.

;)

Edited to add: All I get are offers of rough sex. :,,,,,,,,,,(

insomniasexx  ·  3603 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm much better at being clever when I can think, google, and type. :P

edit: I've gotten a couple of those. Best opening line, "can you be my fuckbuddy?" I put that I only fuck after a great, deep conversation in my blurb. It's helping? I think?

edit2: also, what's up with EVERY guy telling me how tall they are? I don't give a fuck. Tell me what you do for a living dork.

ButterflyEffect  ·  3603 days ago  ·  link  ·  

So tempted to badge that conversation. Must resist.

I don't get offers of rough sex or being fuck buddies, must be doing something wrong...nor do I make though offers though. Wait maybe that's how I should open conversations. It all makes sense.

I also don't get the pictures of fish and/or riding horses.

insomniasexx  ·  3603 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I liked one guy because his blurb was one line: "I get it. You've all been to Machu Picchu and ride horses."

    I don't get offers of rough sex or being fuck buddies

I think it just depends on what you are looking for. I found that a lot of guys have 0 information in their blurb. I always swipe left on those. I'm not going to start a conversation with a guy who wants me to start a conversation with him based on photos alone. I'm not that shallow.

_refugee_  ·  3603 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Okay so I guess part of the problem is that my profile says the following:

    "I like to have a lot of fun

    Must be 21 or older to play"

But I'm also.... Not really looking? Single yes trying to mingle sure trying to find something meaningful? No

ButterflyEffect  ·  3603 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Since we're sharing these things:

    I play with chemicals for a living. Huge into garage rock and other music.

    College Radio DJ, record label founder, guitarist, and foodie/beer enthusiast.

    Enjoy docs, French culture, and being outside. Doesn't catch fish or ride horses. Please don't kill me. RIT '15.

insomniasexx  ·  3603 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'd swipe right it.

insomniasexx  ·  3603 days ago  ·  link  ·  

This is mine:

    Creative. Designer / front end dev / workaholic with a habit of making spontaneous and stupid decisions involving whiskey Wednesday nights. The internet is my friend.

    LA -> NYC (NYU Film / TV) -> Sydney -> LA.

    I love exploring, traveling, and finding places without cell service. I try to balance the glow from my computer with the glow of the sun. Skateboarding, hiking, surfing, swimming, anything. Adventure is out there.

    I really don't care how tall you are. I don't fuck until I have a deep conversation.

_refugee_  ·  3603 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Seriously I just added "Must be 21 to play" today.

I don't know, the only time I will meet some one off of Tinder is probably when we are in Boston.