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veen  ·  3747 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What is your MBTI Personality Type, and what are your functions?

    What's your thoughts on "type matching"?

There was a big project I had to do a while ago, and the teachers thought it was a good idea to base the groups upon something very similar to MBTI. The idea was good: they would combine people with opposing qualities, and thus create a group that was good on multiple facets. We had to do a test and a 'group role' rolled out of it. Then, we looked for the 'allergies' of that role, so the annoyances that that role had. I came out as a leader, so my annoyances were people who didn't do shit. People who didn't care, unmotivated and only willing to do the bare minimum.

So I was placed with those people. They had other qualities, the test said, like being more precise and careful with their work, or being better researchers. But the harm was already done. The type matching made me look at people only within those types. When someone was lackluster, I thought 'the test was right, he is unmotivated and annoying'. I began seeing everything they did in the context of the test result. Confirmation bias at it's finest.

It took me far too long to let go of the types and to just see them as they were, people who didn't care as much as I did. Maybe I just took the test too literally. But my point is that these kinds of tests are restrictive, not additive. They limited my thinking of other people instead of giving a new insight.

While it might have served to give me an insight to how they functioned, there wasn't anything that came out of the test that an hour of working together couldn't expose.

Myers-Briggs is the same for me. I'd much rather spend actual time talking to people to find out who they are than to have them take a test. The philosophical discussion that you had two days ago tells me much more about who you are than ISTP ever would.





Kafke  ·  3746 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I find that amusing, as your group work description really looked like it didn't have anything to do with the MBTI types. MBTI deals with how you think, not how lazy/motivated you are.

The lazy/motivated thing has been done before. And it's always been disastrous. "Type matching" is a bit different. As I said, for my particular type (ISTP) not any opposite-ish person would do. Most annoy me, and bother me to no end. Yet, there was a particular type of outgoing person, that nearly instantly transformed who I was and allowed me to just "be". I tended to get along best with those people.

I knew about this weird matching thing before I had heard about MBTI. I figured I just might be a bit weird, as most of my other friends would prefer introverts (and I do too, for the most part). Which is what the "type matching" also says. It basically says you are going to work best with people who share your I/E and J/P traits. J/P refers to how organized&focused the person is. J would probably be someone like you, where you just want to get the work done, and generally take the leader role. I'm a 'P'. Which means that hard as I try, it's in my nature to put off decisions and leave options open. That's just the type of person I am.

I've been recently trying to stick to a schedule recently. You know what happened? I say "yea, but I don't really have to do that, that's just something I set up for myself". And then I end up pushing it off, since I could decide to really do something else. If I were in your group, I'd probably be cast as the "lazy" guy who didn't do shit. Yet, when the time rolls around, I end up getting more work done than anyone else. Because it's not that I'm lazy, it's that I keep my options open until the last minute and then panic work.

I find the typing system to be particularly interesting, as it seemingly describes everyone I've ever met, with pretty good accuracy.

It's matter of personality.

    they would combine people with opposing qualities, and thus create a group that was good on multiple facets

This group would fail. The two sides would tire each other out due to clashing personalities, and ultimately decide to work in two fundamentally different things (depending on where the divide was drawn). For work, the best would be similar work habits (I/E and J/P) and different thinking habits (S/N and T/P). That'd create the most flourishing development. For relationships, you'd need someone to help with the parts that you struggle with as well as someone that keeps you interested. Which is where the ideal matching comes from.

    Myers-Briggs is the same for me. I'd much rather spend actual time talking to people to find out who they are than to have them take a test. The philosophical discussion that you had two days ago tells me much more about who you are than ISTP ever would.

I'd find it the opposite. Sure, the philosophical discussion I posted shows you how I think. But it doesn't show what type of person I am, or how I go about doing things in general. I find it particularly difficult to get to "know" someone based on what they write. As I (as an ISTP) tend to separate what is being said from the person. The idea is the idea, nothing more or less. That doesn't tell me what type of person you are.

One example (that I didn't quite realize myself until recently) is that I was suppressing my "S" in my MBTI type. As a kid (and still a bit now) I'd readily test/experiment with senses. One particular incident caused me to push myself too far, and I ended up getting hurt. Other times I'd just touch everything (which other people with sensing tend to do). I actually got sick because of it.

Myers-Briggs actually says a lot about the person. Sure, you can't learn everything. But it's a great perspective (IMO) into another person's mind. And in terms of MBTI, my Fe is low, (unconscious almost) and I tend to miss what is said nonverbally as well as what's said emotionally. Sure, you could've picked that up had you known me long enough (or just met me and saw how "cold" I am). But something that you (or hardly anyone else) would know without MBTI, is that I do have an Fe, and that it comes out rarely. But it bursts out, generally thrashing about like a little kid. If you've known me for a few years, you might see it, but generally not, as it's a part of myself I generally like to hide (again, another trait of ISTP).

So it's not something to base all of your actions on, but I think it provides a great insight on people and how they behave. It also explains a bit why I tend to hang out with the people I do, and who I find attractive.

But perhaps your disinterest in MBTI is why you'll be baffled when for the most part I'll avoid outgoing people like the plague, yet attract them and in some cases actually respond positively rather than my snarky cold usual exterior.

veen  ·  3746 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I find that amusing, as your group work description really looked like it didn't have anything to do with the MBTI types. MBTI deals with how you think, not how lazy/motivated you are.

It was meant as an example of the point I wanted to make, not as a comparison. My bad if that wasn't clear. The test I took aimed to seek your 'core qualities' and categorized people into roles, like the Architect, the Worker, the Leader etc.

The point I was trying to make clear is that categorizing people is often too simplified and does more harm than good. Just because you can put people into categories, doesn't mean you should. It paves the way for illogical thinking, prejudices and biases. It restricted my thinking; I didn't see the people I worked with as complex human beings anymore, but as the label that they were given. I noticed the tendency to attribute their mistakes to their label: oh, they didn't get their work done, it must be because of [insert generalized character trait here]. Maybe he had a bad day, maybe he wasn't motivated enough. The categories were an abstraction that was detrimental to my perspective of the group members.

M-B is a similar simplification. I can understand that you want to use it to predict behaviour, but I doubt it's effectivity. For one, it's a binary approach to character traits. I'm not an introvert nor an extrovert; it is a spectrum, not ones and zeroes. But there's no middle ground in the system. There are more criticisms of M-B in particular but Wiki does a better job at that

    I find the typing system to be particularly interesting, as it seemingly describes everyone I've ever met, with pretty good accuracy.

Are you sure that isn't just because a) everyone falls within the categories (so of course it describes everyone) and b) it is easy to see people in a certain light? And how would you know it is an accurate description of them, and not just a too simple way of framing their character traits?

    This group would fail.

Yeah, it failed for me. I don't know what the rest thought, and frankly I doubt they cared at all, which was part of the problem. The idea is good but it didn't work in reality. And I'm not convinced that M-B is any different.

    So it's not something to base all of your actions on, but I think it provides a great insight on people and how they behave. It also explains a bit why I tend to hang out with the people I do, and who I find attractive.

I can understand why it is good for yourself, as a critical self-assessment. And it is nice that you found out that you have suppressed a part of you that you hadn't questioned before (or not as deeply as now). I just don't see it as a tool to get 'great insight on people and how they behave'. It is too deterministic, the assessments are mediocre at best, and I found that line of thinking to be harmful to my perspective of people. The categories are binary and restrictive. No, I don't think it is a great perspective into another person's mind.

    But perhaps your disinterest in MBTI is why you'll be baffled when for the most part I'll avoid outgoing people like the plague, yet attract them and in some cases actually respond positively rather than my snarky cold usual exterior.

What exactly are you trying to say here? I am not disinterested, I'm just not convinced of Myers-Briggs as anything more than a facebook-questionnaire.

pseydtonne  ·  3746 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    What exactly are you trying to say here? I am not disinterested, I'm just not convinced of Myers-Briggs as anything more than a facebook-questionnaire.

I second this. It's almost the ur-quiz: "How type-A are you?" It's not quite as culturally loaded as an IQ test or the original SATs, but...

Kafke  ·  3746 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Then don't view it as a quiz. Just take a look at the functions and determine your type that way. The quiz is just to make it a bit easier.

The point is, don't care about the quiz. It's the typing that matters. Many of the quizzes get your type wrong anyway. The one I linked is the one I found to be accurate, but mileage will of course vary.

pseydtonne  ·  3746 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Make what a bit easier -- determining which pigeon-hole defines me? I spent my childhood being shoved in pigeon-holes, so now I should let a test pick my next one? No thanks.

When you say "it's the typing that matters", how does it matter? What problem are you solving when you run this test? it seems like classification for the sport of it.

Kafke  ·  3746 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    determining which pigeon-hole defines me? I spent my childhood being shoved in pigeon-holes, so now I should let a test pick my next one? No thanks.

You don't need to let the test determine your type. Go study up and learn why each type is defined the way it is. As I said, the quiz is just there to make this process easier.

    When you say "it's the typing that matters", how does it matter? What problem are you solving when you run this test?

Because I can see that you are an "S" person (focusing on practicality and problem solving, rather than theorizing) and thus I can understand how you think and relate to things.

    it seems like classification for the sport of it.

Perhaps. I find that it provides a framework for understanding people. Which is something I typically have problems with. Classifying and categorizing them makes it easier for me.

That's what the purpose is.

Kafke  ·  3746 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I noticed the tendency to attribute their mistakes to their label: oh, they didn't get their work done, it must be because of [insert generalized character trait here]

Again, MBTI measures personality. There is nothing inherently good or bad about any of them. Everyone can learn to do everything. It's just different ways of thinking and reacting to information.

    M-B is a similar simplification. I can understand that you want to use it to predict behaviour, but I doubt it's effectivity. For one, it's a binary approach to character traits. I'm not an introvert nor an extrovert; it is a spectrum, not ones and zeroes. But there's no middle ground in the system.

Yes, the letters are a clear distinction, but if you read more into it, you find that within each typing, there are various levels of development. Some people are better at handling things in a certain way than others. Nothing is inherently "better", just different. My S/N letter is fairly weak. And it almost could go anyway (if I were to follow the tests). The tests are there to give you an idea of where you fall, not to determine your type. Which is why most of them provide percentages and probabilities.

    I can understand why it is good for yourself, as a critical self-assessment. And it is nice that you found out that you have suppressed a part of you that you hadn't questioned before (or not as deeply as now).

That's the whole point.

    I just don't see it as a tool to get 'great insight on people and how they behave'. It is too deterministic, the assessments are mediocre at best, and I found that line of thinking to be harmful to my perspective of people. The categories are binary and restrictive. No, I don't think it is a great perspective into another person's mind.

I don't see it that way. I see it as a naming convention for a system I had already used in my mind.

    What exactly are you trying to say here? I am not disinterested, I'm just not convinced of Myers-Briggs as anything more than a facebook-questionnaire.

Well, not quite. Facebook-questionaires really have nothing to do with categorizing based on personality. They usually have random pointless questions, and 90% of which I can't answer because the creator failed to include certain options. MBTI has a category for each type of person. and doesn't rely on a single quiz to determine placement. I linked to one such way of determining your type (I thought it was the most accurate I've found), but you certainly don't need the quiz/test in order to do so. It's a categorization system, not a quiz.

As for your confusion to my comment, let me restate: I'm pretty much the most introverted person I know. Yet, I find some extraverted people (not all, and definitely not most) seem to just make me "click" and I can easily be myself and converse.

Up until now, I had no clue why that would be the case. I typically dislike people (even other introverts) and tend to keep to myself. Reading into MBTI and socionics (which is slightly different than MBTI), I now understand why this is the case. It's also able to accurately describe how I think, as well as why I'd do something a certain way.

It's scarily accurate. Some other ISTP typed people decided to come up with a wiki. And it pretty much felt like I was reading a biography of myself. How would that even be possible if MBTI was, as you put it, nothing more than a facebook-questionaire? Most people who also determine their type (and ensure it is the correct typing) also say similar things. You can't really do that with generic Facebook quizzes.

veen  ·  3746 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Nothing is inherently "better", just different.

I'm not saying that ISTJ is better than ENFP or anything like that. It's that I noticed that I associated their behaviour with my perception of their personality. Fitting to the curve.

    That's the whole point.

No, you're also trying to predict the future behaviour of others with a system that at best might give you a slightly better perspective of yourself.

    The tests are there to give you an idea of where you fall, not to determine your type. Which is why most of them provide percentages and probabilities.

Here's my result. I made the test honestly, swear to god, but apparently my place is dead center.

Your Cognitive Functions:

Extroverted Intuition (Ne) 9.15

Introverted Intuition (Ni) 5.925

Extroverted Feeling (Fe) 5.38

Introverted Feeling (Fi) 4.85

Extroverted Sensation (Se) 4.48

Introverted Sensation (Si) 4.24

Introverted Thinking (Ti) 4.15

Extroverted Thinking (Te) 3.62

Your Extroverted Intuition (Ne) is very developed.

Your Introverted Intuition (Ni) is moderate.

Your Extroverted Sensation (Se) is moderate.

Your Introverted Sensation (Si) is moderate.

Your Introverted Thinking (Ti) is moderate.

Your Extroverted Thinking (Te) is moderate.

Your Extroverted Feeling (Fe) is moderate.

Your Introverted Feeling (Fi) is moderate.

Now, what does that tell about me? I'd love to know. Maybe I should become moderator.

    I don't see it that way.

Any reason why? I haven't heard a good counterargument to what I said there.

    Yet, I find some extraverted people (not all, and definitely not most) seem to just make me "click" and I can easily be myself and converse. Up until now, I had no clue why that would be the case.

And it isn't possible that some people can just cooperate well with introverts?

    Facebook-questionaires really have nothing to do with categorizing based on personality.
It was a blunt example to get my point across. Maybe a better comparison: every time you say "as an [MBTI category]", it sounds to me like "as a Capricorn / Leo / Virgo / etc". This part of a Penn & Teller episode on astrology reminds me of your MBTI categorization. Yes, MBTI is technically science and not made up but your reaction to the categorization is the same.

    It's scarily accurate.

So are some horoscopes.

_refugee_  ·  3744 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I think what we see here with certain people's adherence to the MBTI types is very similar to what happens with horoscopes:

"I like what I read and it is vague and general enough that it absolutely can apply to me, so by god, it's right!"

I mean, my MBTI type is "mastermind." It's very flattering to think I"m a rare test result and come on, a name like mastermind? I could go on and on bragging about my type if I wanted to.

But it's meaningless. I don't.

I agree with all statements about confirmation bias and wanting to see in yourself what you read in your result. It's flattery, plain and simple.

bonjourdemain  ·  3744 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I agree, when people take these tests they expect their answers to come out the way they want them to. Although I don't think that this necessarily disproves the validity of the test, because it still makes you look for what you believe to be true about yourself. I know myself to be an introvert, so when my results came out as INTP/INFP, I found it interesting to see things that seemed to fit my personality type. Flattery-maybe. Untrue-not entirely.

veen  ·  3744 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I agree with all statements about confirmation bias and wanting to see in yourself what you read in your result. It's flattery, plain and simple.

Cognitive dissonance as well. It's a line of thinking that fits with people's current perspective and thus very easy to accept. If the test would say stuff that wasn't true, it would be far easier to dismiss. But the test has a good category for everyone, there's no 'bad' category.