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_refugee_  ·  4159 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, what're you gonna be when you grow up?

And wrong you are :)





nowaypablo  ·  4158 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Holy shit i love what just happened. OftenBen i think your pong just ping'd.

_refugee_  ·  4157 days ago  ·  link  ·  

In my opinion the beginning stages of dating should be both easy and fun. If it is hard right off the bat, it's because something isn't working. Eventually you will get to hard points but they shouldn't be in the first few weeks.

nowaypablo  ·  4157 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I agree, but a lot of people don't realize that eventually you have to work with (not against!) your partner to get to the good stuff that comes with a relationship on a longer timeline. It's like everyone enjoys the honeymoon phase then tries to turn the plane around when its time to fly back from Hawaii.

_refugee_  ·  4155 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Oh, it's true, and I can't say I'm not guilty. But your partner has to be worth the bad stuff, too, and sometimes you realize they aren't.

nowaypablo  ·  4155 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I may or may not be subject to this at the moment :( trying to show her I'm in it for the long haul too but she's not buying it.

_refugee_  ·  4154 days ago  ·  link  ·  

A tough spot to be in. Best of luck.