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nowaypablo  ·  4000 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, what're you gonna be when you grow up?

I agree, but a lot of people don't realize that eventually you have to work with (not against!) your partner to get to the good stuff that comes with a relationship on a longer timeline. It's like everyone enjoys the honeymoon phase then tries to turn the plane around when its time to fly back from Hawaii.





_refugee_  ·  3999 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Oh, it's true, and I can't say I'm not guilty. But your partner has to be worth the bad stuff, too, and sometimes you realize they aren't.

nowaypablo  ·  3999 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I may or may not be subject to this at the moment :( trying to show her I'm in it for the long haul too but she's not buying it.

_refugee_  ·  3998 days ago  ·  link  ·  

A tough spot to be in. Best of luck.