Not at all. On the negative side, I recently got the experience of finding out how it feels to have a girlfriend of 4.5 years, who lived with me, and whom I supported financially and emotionally for quite a long time, fuck at least one other dude, possibly several, but she's too chickenshit to ever tell me the truth. Not that I care at this point. That was several months ago, and I'm not angry anymore. But at the time it was the lowest low I've ever felt. On the upside, I have a couple nieces who are young (one is 19 months, and the other is 4 months) who show me new meanings of the word love pretty much everyday. I have no idea how rewarding it must be to have kids, because even having nieces, I never knew that I could care about a human as much as I do them. They are nothing but joy to me, especially the older one now that she's getting to an age where she's beginning to talk and loves to play and such. Neither of these experiences were known to me (viscerally) before I had them personally. You can hear a million songs about how much it sucks when your girl is a terrible whore, and what a gift it is to love someone wholly, but if you don't know what it's like, then you don't know what it's like.
No shit. Me too. Although, maybe it has happened to me. My ex certainly didn't have a problem spending my money. And all I really got in return was occasional, boring sex. If that's not a whore, I guess I don't know what one is! Who knows what she got out of her other dudes on the side. I'm pretty sure they were all losers, though, so I don't think it was monetary.
Sorry to hear about the negative, but happy to hear about the upside. You're right, there really is no substitute for experiencing an emotion firsthand. I agree that capturing those kinds of experiences is why good writers, musicians, filmmakers, and other artists receive so much adoration. You've also helped strengthen my belief that a mark of a true artist, or at least one people adore and love, is a strong sense of empathy.