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onehunna  ·  3886 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: How does one become nonchalantly hilarious?

I find the most observant people are often the funniest. 'Being funny' is really a tough thing to nail down to some sort of science (in a non-performance environment), but those who are most observant and aware of their surroundings tend to connect things in ways others find funny and can point things out others may have missed.





_refugee_  ·  3885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

This is something I've been thinking about a lot. (I've been trying to write funny poems.) I think there are different flavors of humor, but some ways to be funny that I've come up with:

- being unexpected, as lil mentioned. -being related but in an unexpected way, as rezzeJ is kind of getting at, and also lil with the biker comment. My dad does this a lot. Here's an example of something I said recently that he found funny, to illustrate: I was giving him directions to my new house and I said, "OK, once you get into the neighborhood you'll hit a stop sign. Well - don't hit it, try just to stop at it, ok?" It's related to the topic being discussed but approaches it in an unexpected manner. - hyperbole/exaggeration which can be related to -being wry

I also think people enjoy self-deprecating humor. I was sick recently and had a very hoarse voice. Went to Wawa for chicken soup and the man asked me how I was doing. I was buying OJ and soup so I figured it was probably really clear I was sick especially with my voice, but I just said I was doing so-so. He said "Better than bad right?" and I said "You're right! I could have lost my voice...But then I think there are some people out there who wouldn't mind if that happened!" This really took him by surprise and he laughed a lot. I think part of it was because it was unexpected, and maybe that's why self-deprecating humor works - because people don't expect you to poke fun at yourself - but I think it's also because I was willing to acknowledge, Hey! I don't think I'm the queen of everything! There's an upside to every situation!

I don't know. Some of my thoughts.

lil  ·  3885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You live near Wawa -- now that's funny!! I doubt very many people out there in the hubskiverse have EVER heard of Wawa.

_refugee_  ·  3885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Oh, Wawa is like, my god. I live across the street from one. I like to walk there.

lil  ·  3885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Oh that Wawa. I thought you meant this Wawa famous for its giant goose.

_refugee_  ·  3885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Oh no! The food place, yeah haha.