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I like stuff and stuff. If you also like stuff, I think hubski is a good place for you.

Some stuff you might like, that I like:

#hubskibookclub

#weeklymusicthread

#todayswritingprompt

#poetry

#food

#writebetterdammit

#goodlongread

#animals

#storyclub

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h-u-m-a-n-o-d-o-n, like "iguanodon"




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humanodon  ·  link  ·  parent  ·  post: Something beautiful died tonight

I keep finding dead birds

humanodon  ·  link  ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: October 11, 2017

Cheers KB. Will try to come back here more regularly!

humanodon  ·  link  ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: October 11, 2017

It was kind of unwilling, but at this point it's a good 4 months. It's been inconvenient and has kind of messed with my projected timelines, but it's tough to write a thesis on equity and inclusion when studying led to me excluding myself from my own life and my own relationships. Hardly a great place to write from, you know?

As for how long, I don't know. I just have to write the damn thing. Man, that is a huge deal to set yourself on a path where you are helping people on less than great days in their lives. It's even bigger to realistically look at how much time it will take to earn the competence it takes to deal with that capably. Positive self-perception is huge in contributing to feelings of belonging in general and if you're really serious about being a nurse, then finding places where you can get acknowledgement will be crucial to the concretization of that identity. Build those relationships where you can, and if building those relationships is difficult, that's not necessarily all on you. There's a lot of research on mentorship being done these days in employee success. Are there opportunities for mentorship in your professional context?

Anyway, I hope it gets better man, sorry it was a hairy one today.

humanodon  ·  link  ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: October 11, 2017

Yo!

Good nurses are in short supply. It's been a while since we talked, but in my own re-entry to education, I've felt some similar stuff and for my part, I wasn't able to hold it all together until graduation. But, I'm feeling better after a break. Not the point!

What I will say is, I had a meeting with my advisor where I was talking about my chosen discipline (conflict resolution) and parallels to music. You are a musician. What I was saying is that I feel like sometimes in dicey situations, I have to fall back on lessons that I learned from music; I know the changes, the progressions, my own capabilities, etc. and a lot of it is dealing with the emergent as it comes. And as you know, in live music playing with other people, that means fucking up and then bending it around so that it isn't so much a fuck up.

If you know your shit in nursing like you know your shit in music, are these fuckups things that will totally derail the flow? I have no idea, but you probably do. It might be hell right now, but if qualified experts said that you were cool to drop in, maybe there's something to that. On the other hand, given that you know yourself, are there things that need to happen so that you can take care of yourself and thereby be better situated to help your patients?

Anyway, I hope that things work out man. Send sweet jams when you can.

humanodon  ·  link  ·  parent  ·  post: Anyone in Boston October 12-15?

Shucks . . . Well, I'm in Boston for the foreseeable future, so come on by whenever. I hope that the boy you were coming to see has recovered by then. If one is to be a man, it's best to be a healthy man!

humanodon  ·  link  ·  parent  ·  post: Anyone in Boston October 12-15?

Is this on?

humanodon  ·  link  ·  parent  ·  post: Anyone in Boston October 12-15?

I can make those work. Let us know where you're staying once you know! Boston is small, but it can take a while to get around . . .

humanodon  ·  link  ·  parent  ·  post: Anyone in Boston October 12-15?

Thanks. Come by!

humanodon  ·  link  ·  parent  ·  post: Anyone in Boston October 12-15?

Hey E, what's shakin? I've been thinking I need to start writing again, but I am also avoiding my thesis ;_;

humanodon  ·  link  ·  parent  ·  post: Anyone in Boston October 12-15?

Why yes, I will be around and I would love to see you!

Haha, it was a decent poem, but I think I would've liked to have seen that line in it. Congrats by the way on the album! Hope all is well in cW world!

Heh, maybe this summer I'll get back into it!

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