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comment by ButterflyEffect
ButterflyEffect  ·  38 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: December 28, 2022

Girl stuff continues to be fraught with potential emotional peril and also continues to be now onto the third consecutive insanely fun week. It’s clear that she doesn’t want a relationship at this time and that we kind of skipped dating and went straight into that. The likely outcome will be her continuing to primarily date me, but going on dates with other people (aka taking a step back and into a more “normal” early relationship/dating experience).

Anyway. We’re spending New Year’s Eve together. Will be fun. There’s a lot of reasons I’m okay with this. We’ll end up together, I’m pretty sure of it.





lil  ·  35 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Insane fun is a fabulous foundation. Grow. Deepen. Accept. Encourage.

ButterflyEffect  ·  34 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Lots of tears tonight. Lots of uncertainty. Lots to learn together. We’ll see. I’m less hopeful.

Foveaux  ·  34 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Gah sorry to hear that bfx.

ButterflyEffect  ·  34 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Life is giving me this challenge and I’m embracing it one way or the other.