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comment by ButterflyEffect
ButterflyEffect  ·  586 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: October 12, 2022

Put together my big scary goal sheet for climbing for next year but also up to 5 years out (lol, like that won't change). But I'm feeling better and better about what I'm hoping to do next year, so long as I can make the time and find the partners. The longer term goals will require a radical shift in how I am living though, as we're talking about 15 to 30 day long trips, potentially.

Meanwhile, I'm learning that at least on these dating apps that the people I am interested in and the people who seem interested in me have a high degree of instability? Most of these people/dates are the one 7 hours away going back to school, multiple other dates with RNs, a date with a postdoc who's moving to Europe, and a date with a mountain guide. Nothing "stable" about any of that. I am not sure what to make of this yet.