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comment by bioemerl
bioemerl  ·  2775 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Precious Little Voter Needs To Feel Inspired By Candidate

I meant more to discuss the article than to discuss your own reasons for posting it. I hate reading people who talk about others, even if it's under the guise of "sarcasm" as if their decisions are somehow invalid or incorrect based on nothing but ridicule.





OftenBen  ·  2775 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Shame is a powerful tool for shaping behavior. I won't say if this is a good or bad thing.

bioemerl  ·  2775 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Shame is okay, but it must come from a place where you truly understand and engage with the persons reasoning, and shame them for good reason, not simply because they disagree and you want to bully them.

OftenBen  ·  2775 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Have any examples of what we might cautiously term 'pro-social shame?'

bioemerl  ·  2775 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It's about showing that you understand and respect the other person's position. I can't really think of any examples, but I didn't read this article as something that was doing that.