You have a unique perspective amongst everybody on Hubski, I think. So I'm curious - what did you personally experience as far as promiscuity etc when you identified as male vs. when you started identifying as female? No matter what I may think, I'm only seeing one side of it. And having been privy to what women experience online, being "female" on the Internet is a fucking horrorshow, even if you're just pretending to be one for the lulz. It's enough to make me cautious about any opinions I may have because I think entitled male privilege tends to completely swamp the actual, mundane, day-to-day drudge of aligning with the fair sex.
I wish I had a good answer, but I'm the wrong person to ask. I haven't had a date in over a decade and literally hate myself, so I don't have a whole lot of recent romantic experience. Have I noticed sexism? hell yes - I'm at a point in transition where some days I pass and some I don't, and on days when I pass as male I get treated incredibly differently by strangers than I do when I pass as female. I get treated more like a beginner when I pass as female in the music world, and my (personally perceived) adequacy in cooking, cleaning etc is given praise more often when I pass as male. It's a weird scene. Trans people have documented this effect, and we even talk about it when someone is like "what's transition like?" because we say "well be prepared for privilege you didn't even know you had to slowly slip away. People will assume you don't know how to pump gas." Trans men suddenly have people paying attention to what they say, etc.You have a unique perspective amongst everybody on Hubski, I think. So I'm curious - what did you personally experience as far as promiscuity etc when you identified as male vs. when you started identifying as female?
Wowsers. We need to get you laid. Whatever that looks like at the moment. There's a checker at my local supermarket in WA. For a few months she dressed as a girl. Now he dresses as a boy. I can only assume the supermarket got complaints over how poorly she passed and gave her an ultimatum. On the one hand, it's confusing for me... but it's gotta be torture for her.
you know what would make that kids life? ask "Hey kid, what are your preferred pronouns?" and then use the ones they say.