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comment by jadedog
jadedog  ·  3099 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person

Rhetorical question that I've thought about also. If you believe that loneliness causes depression, then is it your belief or the loneliness that causes the depression?

I've seen the articles on the correlation between loneliness and depression, but I'm not convinced of the causation.

This is a video by Noah Elkrief on youtube that's a different take on loneliness. He has a few other videos on loneliness and being single.





galen  ·  3099 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm wary of spending 20 minutes watching a video that's ostensibly an ad for a self-help e-book. Is it really worth it?

ButterflyEffect  ·  3099 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Post hoc ergo propter hoc.

jadedog  ·  3099 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yes, and it's also complicated by the idea that loneliness and being alone are the same thing. In this article, some of the suggested antidotes to loneliness are getting a pet, finding a passion, traveling, altruism, and believing in a higher power. In most of those, other people are optional.

Loneliness in that case is tied to how people look at themselves. It's the same with depression. It's not clear to me if one causes the other or if they're the same phenomenon with different labels.