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comment by blackbootz
blackbootz  ·  2940 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: April 6, 2016

I think it's perfectly normal to cave like that. I called my ex something like once a month for several months. And when she picked up five months later, and asked how I was doing, I went off about how terribly I had been holding up since we broke up. Not the strong, graceful exit that I would love to tell my kid about when he or she asks, "Papa, what did you when you went through that awful, no good, really bad break up?" But I think that's ok. We really are not robots.

Hold tight.





flac  ·  2940 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I totally feel that, I'm trying my best to be civil with this. I know I was a good boyfriend, and I'd like to be just as good of an ex.