Good ideas and conversation. No ads, no tracking. Login or Take a Tour!
For me it was moving back to the USA, and leaving a relationship with a lovely woman behind. We had been dating for a while, it was good, but it wasn't let's-move-in-together-and-have-babies serious... and I needed to either leave the country, or commit to becoming a full citizen of the EU instead of just a long-term tourist. Job prospects had dried up. I had just come out of a bad relationship, and wasn't sure I should jump into another one.... and so logic told me to go "home", be near my parents again, and rebuild my life in the US. So I did. My heart wanted to stay, and it still twinges when I think about it.