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comment by Existentialist

Why is this directed toward women for the most part? It might be the cynic in me -- or it could even be my greed -- but I don't typically recommend lending anything other than insignificant amounts of money to anyone.





lil  ·  3287 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It's directed towards women because women are always asking me (and Google) that question. Men also ask Google about lending money. There are many different situations, but as I think the stories indicate, I'm speaking to women who feel pressured and have difficulty saying no.

I'm aware of men who also have difficulty saying no when they want to.