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comment by Idonknowwhattodo
Idonknowwhattodo  ·  3210 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Me [31 M] with my girlfriend [29 F] of 3 years, am I wasting her life?

She's a catch, it's not like she wouldn't have other options (from my POV).





shiranaihito  ·  3210 days ago  ·  link  ·  

But she's 29 years old, which means any alpha male will just go for someone younger, especially when choosing a long-term partner, and she knows this.

Idonknowwhattodo  ·  3210 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'll take that as a compliment. But I don't think I'm that alpha.

shiranaihito  ·  3209 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm not sure how you interpreted that, but basically the idea was that now, at 29, she'd have a hard time getting an alpha male, and it would be just about impossible to get one to commit to her.

I'm very much not alpha either, if it's any consolation :)

matjam  ·  3207 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'd go for a 29yo and I'm ALPHA AS FUCK. As long as she had a good personality of course.

shiranaihito  ·  3207 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Are you 50 years old then?

matjam  ·  3206 days ago  ·  link  ·  

no ... I was being sarcironictastic.

shiranaihito  ·  3206 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Good for you