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user-inactivated  ·  3469 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lying to Myself // To the Small Town of Hubski

    But before they get there, we're left dealing with a group of people that simply don't know how to de-escalate an argument.

Do you not feel like it may be beneficial to respond with the knowledge of how to deal with it? I'm not talking about myself - I fucked up - but others are simply doing their best and don't know any better yet. If one has the beneficial knowledge, aren't they supposed to share it, for it will benefit everybody?





swedishbadgergirl  ·  3441 days ago  ·  link  ·  

HE DOES!

When I got here I was in an argument with him, and he explained exactly everything about small town internet to me. '

Namely, not everyone has to interact with you. They will if they want to, but they have no obligation to do so.