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comment by thenewgreen

I have a four year old daughter. We have a number of "matching games" and at first I would let her win a few games and lose a couple too, in order to teach her how to handle both experiences. Now, she openly kicks my ass without me pulling any punches. I wish she would let me win from time to time. But, I get the sentiment from the athletes, it makes sense. I think being competitive is a great thing in life. Learning how to lose AND win with dignity is important stuff.





Ty-Guy  ·  3229 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm sorry I brought up such a sore subject! :)

I'm glad your daughter is showing that kind of promise from such a young age. I hadn't considered winning with dignity! That lesson will be a hard one to teach, I think. My main thesis of parenthood is probably just going to be "have empathy for everyone." Hopefully my kids will have some friends that show them how to win and lose well, too.

thenewgreen  ·  3229 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    My main thesis of parenthood is probably just going to be "have empathy for everyone."
That's a solid foundation Ty-Guy!