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lil  ·  3459 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Attachment Styles and Close Relationships (links to quiz)

Sorry, couldn't take it. When I got to this question:

5. Are you currently in an exclusive romantic (dating/marital) relationship?

❍ no

❍ Yes, I am dating someone

❍ Yes, I am married.

All three are somewhat true for me.





lil  ·  3459 days ago  ·  link  ·  
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thenewgreen  ·  3459 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Pick the most true one and move on, scaredy cat.

lil  ·  3459 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I started the test, but the questions asked were not the questions that I needed to answer. Here's the questions on my attachment style quiz:

1. I find it relatively easy to get close to my partner, given his capacity for closeness.

2. It makes me self-reliant when I get a style of affection and support that I don't need from my partner.

3. I no longer worry that my partner hasn't got a clue how to figure out how to express love for me.

4. I don't feel comfortable opening up to romantic partners who are highly committed but completely preoccupied.

5. When my partner is out of sight, I hope that he or she is interested in someone else. I need some time to myself.

and so on....

ha ha ha