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syzo  ·  3561 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "You are muted here. Have you tried apologizing?"

This is a good point, and it doesn't seem to me like an "ignore this user's comments only for replies to my stuff" thing would make too much sense, either. Hmmmmm.





_refugee_  ·  3561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm aware that I'm perhaps atypically vehement on this point of view - I refuse to delete old phone numbers, and have had a tough time removing frenemies/old flames/former friends on Facebook and other social media simply because, although I may not have a connection to these people now, I'd prefer to know what they are up to if I so choose. Except in extreme cases (a particularly poisonous former friend, a particularly painful and frequently-thought-of old lover) when I can't help myself or it's better to excise the drama, I opt for the ability to have knowledge over completely cutting someone out. Part of this is because I want to prove to myself that I am able to not interact with them (once a relationship is ended, for instance). And a large part of it is also a raving curiosity I've always possessed.

I very well may be in the minority here and if it comes to that I will accept it, but for me the mute function would lose its functionality, unless in an extreme, inescapable case of personal harassment.

kleinbl00  ·  3561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

So don't use mute.

But don't infringe on my ability to control who can and cannot comment on my posts.

syzo  ·  3561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yeah, I can see where you're coming from, because I probably wouldn't use "mute as comment ignore" all too much either unless it was blatant spamming.

I personally wouldn't use the mute function as it currently is either because I don't want to block someone from sharing their views with other people, even if it's views I disagree with on posts that I make.

Social media is hard, let's go shopping.

_refugee_  ·  3561 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Ugh, shopping is worse.

:)