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mike  ·  3886 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I kidnapped my daughter's killer - it was the only way I could get justice

I agree, bioemerl and havires. I found a lot of things horrifying in the story -- the greatest horror being that a man would have to dedicate his life to getting justice for his daughter. He used his one and only life to pursue this, to think about it every day for decades, to have this be his purpose in life. Yes, there's the feel-good moment of going outside of the system to get justice, then putting delivery of justice in the hands of the courts, and then getting proper justice, and the clincher of getting forgiveness for kidnapping someone. It's a helluva story. But even with the "happy ending", he still lost his daughter. Lots of mixed emotions in this story, it's been haunting me.





cgod  ·  3886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Fuck it. I think if I knew the person who raped and killed my daughter was free and raping and endangering other girls I would become like a samurai, I'd accept that I was dead already and dedicate my life to ending that man.

What would life be worth to know that a person who did that to my family was still doing the same thing to other peoples? It seems obvious that it would be worth more to spare some other soul the desolation and pain that I lived in than to worry about finding away to whittle away the hours in torment until I died.

What consequences could be worse than the pain of loosing your daughter to such a foul being?

mike  ·  3885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Oh I agree. I would rage and hunt and never rest. But to think of all of the things you could have done with your life, and instead your life is spent on this cause. It becomes a tragedy times two. I hope he can find joy with the rest of his years.

havires  ·  3886 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I mean yeah it's horrible and I agree there are lot of mixed feelings to be had, but that's why I made that remark about dedication/determination.

mike  ·  3885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Indeed! And part of the horror is that that is what your life becomes, dedicated to this one awful cause!

havires  ·  3885 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I don't think is any coming back from it either right?