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_refugee_  ·  3846 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Who is in?

He isn't, but as of my last relationship I instated a minimum requirement for this kind of activity and I think I'm going to keep it. I mean, both parties agreed to the requirement and if there were extenuating circumstances (such as week-long vacations) the requirement was waived, but after a summer of sporadic activity, I decided I wanted to know with certainty that I was going to get a certain amount. And I do want to get laid a certain amount. So I think it's going to be an expectation I set with partners going forward.

Of course long term relationships - especially with kids - those things waver and may not take as much priority - but I'm not there :)