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veen  ·  3790 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Self-Reflection Sunday: How are you thoughtful?

    I think the amount of time you've put into considering it, the length of what you have to say about it, and the quality of that quantity.

Interesting, I'm more of a short-but-sweet writer. High information density. Not that I don't enjoy your long post, to the contrary, it's just a different approach I have. If I want to produce quality, I take a long time refining my sentences and word structure. For example, I cared a lot about a proper response to kleinbl00 since I know he's good at spotting my bullshit. That post took me more than an hour to refine, to comprise the incoherent thoughts I have into a logical story.

Thus I find it quite difficult to respond as lengthy as you do. So I'll just respond to the parts of your post that stood out to me, as above.

    Yes, sometimes I leave one-line replies and honestly sometimes that's all that's warranted - but most of the time I try to give more and I try to give a lot of thought to responses.

I don't think we should try to eliminate the one-line response. There should be room for some less serious responses. Only when it becomes a common sight and not an exception is it something bad.

    For links - I read stories before I decide to share them.

Isn't that what everyone does? My flow is always article -> comments ( -> respond) -> share. Just headline reading shouldn't warrant a share, I think.

    As a result I mostly post questions I've been chewing over in my head that I can't figure out. [..] It's interesting to see everyone's different perspective on something and I really enjoy seeing how everyone thinks differently.

I really like that approach. After all, thoughtful discussion is about thoughts.

    But, heh, there's my ruminations.

Thanks for sharing them!





kleinbl00  ·  3790 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    *"Je N'ai fait celle-ci plus longue que parceque je n'ai pas eu le loisir de la faire plus courte.*--I have only made this letter rather long because I have not had time to make it shorter."

Pascal. Lettres provinciales, 16, Dec.14,1656.

My Hubski posts do tend to be shorter than my Reddit posts ever were. I've also found that, over time, I'm striving more and more for brevity. But then, they waived my english requirements in college because my scores were embarrassingly high, and I'm only getting to this point 20 years, 9 screenplays and a novel later.