So here's questions for both people who are very social and people who aren't quite as social:
What do YOU think about when you look at people (as in walking past people or being in a crowd of people)? What do YOU think about when someone looks at you?
When I walk by people and I read their shirt, or I look at their hair, or admire certain assets, that's all I think about. And 99% of the time it is in a complimentary way ("Her hair looks so good!", "I wonder where he got that shirt", "DAYUM").
But when I see a person look at me, I immediately question half my decisions for earlier that day. My first reaction is NEVER complimentary for myself ("Do my colors not match?", "Did I spill something on myself?", "Do I just look bad today?"). As soon as that person walks by me I look down and check myself out to calm some fears, but not all of them.
Am I weird or normal?