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lil  ·  3385 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What Are You Most Self-Conscious About?

Thanks for your thoughts on this, yojoy. First of all, I enjoy your writing.

    So we discuss, we laugh, we cry, we learn. We agree and we disagree. We have built a relationship that revolves around our desire to continually learn and never rest.
Has she read that passage? Does she agree?
    And so I can never stop wondering what it is that I can do to ensure that this relationship is still worth something, to the both of us.
All this wondering, it sounds like you are doing a lot of the emotional work in the relationship, or is she also thinking a lot about the sustainability of the two of you?