Why? Do you feel that people are rude? That it's too much of an effort to be worth it? Advice is autobiography, but I found that what has helped me the most is working and being with other people, even people that I don't especially care for at the onset. There is an organization that I worked with, All Hands, that is looking for help with the flooding in South Carolina. This organization attracts quality people, from all around the world, to their relief efforts. They have a storied past. You'll have to provide airfare, but they will cover all your expenses when you're there.I also don't enjoy people as a rule
A lot of time I can find that I do like many different people for varied reasons if I am forced to associate with them daily. My boss is so different from me that'd I'd never see a reason to interact with him if not for business but having been kinda forced to deal with him I think he's the greatest example of a Christian I've ever met despite our differences. I work in retail. Most of my experiences with people are superficial and annoying. Working in retail and being hostile towards small talk is bad. I think if I found the right volunteer work I could connect with people who share my values and I could have a deeper understanding than "Well, I can overlook this other bullshit." All Hands sounds interesting but I'm hourly so I need something that I can do after hours.