Thanks -- yes, that's a good question ref and I might have a lot to say about that. I think both men (b_b?)and women hang on long after the relationship is sooo over. When we do finally leave, it is the right time -- and we learn a lot about leaving that we can use in the future. Give me 24 hours. . .
Totally. Been there, done that. Breakin' up is hard to do. It's hard to hurt another person's feelings, and it's hard to have enough confidence in yourself to trust that you're making the right choice. But life is about choices, and I don't think that good things happen to people who sit and wait for life to come to them. I'll look forward to your post on the topic. As you know, I've been wrestling with some heavy life decisions recently (in a good way), and certainly the topic of what to do about relationships weighs heavy on a lot of people's minds.