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DanyRandom  ·  41 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Teen with sensory issues, ask me anything

responded to the wrong person, woops, look at elizabeth's comment, my b!!

DanyRandom  ·  41 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Teen with sensory issues, ask me anything

So my sensory issues are more or less with the issue of ADHD and (my mom and doctor think) is on the spectrum behavior. I can't handle loud or sudden noise too well (to put it lightly) and I also really can't handle sudden or unnecessary touch.(also being put lightly) Ex: Fireworks,Shaking me/my things, Screaming, taking things right out of my hands-

I've been like this since I was a child, but still have no actual confirmation if I am on the spectrum or not, but everyone seems to just assume I am and have no issue calling me things or babying me.

I also have this issue where reading too long makes the words become (what i call) word soup. it's just everywhere and impossible to read, sometimes it just becomes different words and it's noticeable when i'm reading aloud.

Congrats btw on getting the Glioma out! :D

DanyRandom  ·  45 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 17 year old Trans youth, ask me anything! (ftm)

So all I could say is ask what would make them comfortable to do. Try using their preferred name and pronouns. What I DON'T recommend is to use said options around other people unless your friend says they're aware and are comfortable. You don't want to out your friend to strangers, It'll probably make them uncomfortable. but remember to discuss these boundaries with your friend. I'll always be here for other help if needed

DanyRandom  ·  45 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 17 year old Trans youth, ask me anything! (ftm)

So currently, I'm really glad there's people at all who support and understand that being trans or being in the lgbtqia is not a choice. As for how they can help? In my personal opinion, treat us like human beings, we're just people like you, we just want the support we need. may i ask what you mean by kits? the context i'm picking up is kits about 3d printing or kits for trans kids. The issue i'm seeing with that is: it all depends on the schools policies, which youths it's targeted for, and if it's appropriate to be dropped on school grounds.

I say the last bit as there are helpful 3d printed packers for ftm trans kids, but they tend to be considered "inappropriate" due to the shape.

DanyRandom  ·  46 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What song/artist/album transports you to another time and place?

God growing up, my childhood was filled with Avichii,Alan Walker,Daft Punk, hell- even System of the down,Linkin Park, and Rob Zombie were my childhood. But if I were to go back to a good time..it definitely would be Avichii's "wake me up", "hey brother", or Bastille's "Pompeii". These songs would always play anytime I went camping with my dad. It's simpler times like those I really miss.

DanyRandom  ·  47 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 17 year old Trans youth, ask me anything! (ftm)

So growing up, I did care about 9/11 because my mother was nearby when it happened, but it's not so important to me. As for the recession I was 3-4 at the time, with a new baby sister being born, so at the time my focus was keeping away from said child and play with squinkies- As of now I wasn't even aware that existed,So it's still been out of my mind until now.

Make it simple: The topics are not of interest to me so long as it doesn't affect me.

The new issue that we tend to focus on more is how our country and world is falling apart due to a lack of understanding. We also are more focused on the fact everyday, little by little, our rights are being taken away all because old farts in diapers decided to take away the basic right to our own body choices. LGBTQIA+ rights and poc rights are also in danger, as more are also trying to take away our right to marriage,healthcare, and just our choices in life in general. History is repeating itself and we have no power over it besides doing what we can.

DanyRandom  ·  47 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 17 year old Trans youth, ask me anything! (ftm)

Worried (as a ftm): Currently it's "what the hell am I going to do after high school" or "am I actually good enough to do anything after high school?" But the harsh reality is: It all boils down to if I'll ever save up enough money for the surgeries and medical things I want/need (top surgery,bottom surgery,testosterone,therapy, ect.) and with inflation and just the world going to shit within a blink of an eye, it's hard to do such things.

Hopeful: I'm pretty hopeful to leave my current living situation and hopefully live with either my friends or my partners (Poly tft relationship). I also am hoping to accomplish what I need to do with minimal drawbacks/problems.

Looking forward to: What I'm actually most looking forward to is Wednesdays, I host a D&D club after school every Wednesday and so far everyone is happy with my campaign

Dreading: I'm dreadful about a lot of things- many are that "I'll never amount to anything that people want me to be, I'll never be seen as a man or what people will actually see me as". The big picture is: Most teens (not all) with similar issues as me, are really struggling to just exist, so give us a little bit of sympathy- we're doing the best we can 𝙒𝙃𝙄𝙇𝙀 trying to appease the cis gender-norm of today (which is the most cruel today).

It's hard being a trans kid, it's even harder today to not become a statistic.

All I ask is for you and others to do is to read this with a grain of salt, I'm one out of many of us.

I hope you all have a good day and hope you all learned a little more about my lil brain.

Have a good day/night and make sure to care for yourself <3

DanyRandom  ·  48 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 17 year old Trans youth, ask me anything! (ftm)

Honestly??? Just don't have sausage or fish and im a-okay with anything. (not medical or religious reasons. just really hate sausage and fish)

DanyRandom  ·  48 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 17 year old Trans youth, ask me anything! (ftm)

As mentioned in my last post, I broke my phone, my laptop (a school laptop with high restrictions) is my only source of entertainment and communication. I found Hubski when I was looking for interesting websites/games to play. Realizing it has a similar layout to Reddit (minus the toxicity) and interesting stories to read, I decided to get familiar with it better. I ended up joining because a recent post asked what music has been a big interest to people recently so i wanted to participate.

To put a long statement short: I was bored and found this place by a random search :)

DanyRandom  ·  51 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 17 year old commission artist, ask me anything

I make mainly digital art when it comes down for commissions, but if i just want to have a basic idea or a random doodle that might be transferred to digital, i draw traditionally. Unfortunately i recently broke my phone so i have to take a pause on making commissions and this computer doesn't allow me to hook up my drawing pad. Nothing from my phone saved to my computer so unfortunately i can't show any pictures either, but i gladly would if my phone worked :)

DanyRandom  ·  51 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 17 year old commission artist, ask me anything

I've been taking commissions since late 2020, but have only been recently getting buyers since the end of summer (which i think was august). When it comes down to payment, if i know the person irl i'll ask for a cash payment or through Cashapp, however, if i only know someone through online interactions, i ask for the payment through Cashapp.

DanyRandom  ·  51 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 17 year old commission artist, ask me anything

I'm mainly a digital artist with a manga/anime variety art style!

DanyRandom  ·  52 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 503rd Weekly "Share Some Music You've Been Into Lately"

Mary on a cross - ghost

crucified - ghost

Hail to the King - Avenged sevenfold

Unholy - Sam Smith

DanyRandom  ·  52 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 503rd Weekly "Share Some Music You've Been Into Lately"

Mary on a cross - ghost

crucified - ghost

Hail to the King - Avenged sevenfold

Unholy - Sam Smith

DanyRandom  ·  52 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 503rd Weekly "Share Some Music You've Been Into Lately"

Mary on a cross - ghost

crucified - ghost

Hail to the King - Avenged sevenfold

Unholy - Sam Smith

DanyRandom  ·  52 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 503rd Weekly "Share Some Music You've Been Into Lately"

Mary on a cross - ghost

crucified - ghost

Hail to the King - Avenged sevenfold

Unholy - Sam Smith